No bringing in the crisis team immediately is saying we care about you and if you want to talk we’re here. Not all children react the same way and provisions need to be made for those that can’t handle the situation. Glad you and yours are so resilient, not everyone is.
Where are the parents in the times of their childrens’ crises? I am my children’s crisis team and if I feel I need assistance, I will get it. I don’t want the schools interfering with that parental function. I think we both agree that sometimes help is needed but the issue is how quickly and whether it should be automatic or on an as-needed basis. I vote for as-needed. I do understand your concern about having help within reach to everyone but don’t mess with my kids without my say-so.