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Unmarried, Still Children: Children Who’ve Been Raised for Everything but Marriage
Touchstone ^ | June 2008 | Joan Frawley Desmond

Posted on 06/24/2008 3:32:05 PM PDT by rhema

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To: rhema; Clemenza; rmlew

How can anyone expect people to be married at such a young age? Does anyone actually believe that people are mature enough for marriage at 25? 30? 40? Ask anyone over fifty if they thought they were mature and intelligent at 25, I think not. A\marriage license should be like a driver’s license, people ought to be educated in the matter and should pass the test of maturity and intelligence before any such licenses should be granted. Too many morons are “married” with children who then dump the resulting products on society.


41 posted on 06/24/2008 4:18:13 PM PDT by Cacique (quos Deus vult perdere, prius dementat ( Islamia Delenda Est ))
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To: wintertime

Your great grandmother married at 15. Big deal. People also lived to 50 on average back then. The rest of your point seemed more like a brag session. I’m happy for your son, but there isn’t nothing wrong with enjoying life a bit before getting the accounting degree. There’s plenty of time to work later in life and an accounting job (or any for that matter), isn’t the end-all be-all in life.


42 posted on 06/24/2008 4:19:12 PM PDT by ItisaReligionofPeace
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To: John Will
Yeah I’d want a Doctor,Lawyer or a Chemist to not have to gone to college too.
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Please re-read my post. I did **NOT** write that **all** young people should end their education by the eighth grade.

I will assume that you are busy, and missed this point.

You surely are not posting what you did because you lack reading comprehension skills. And...Surely you would **never** consider creating a strawman argument.

43 posted on 06/24/2008 4:20:09 PM PDT by wintertime (Quick find the RAID!)
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To: rhema

Here’s a marriage thread where the bride and groom commit much earlier.

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2035831/posts


44 posted on 06/24/2008 4:20:15 PM PDT by saganite
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To: LiberConservative
She is going to be able to stand on her own two feet if necessary without having to pay a bunch of greedy lawyers to squeeze an ex-husband.

Yikes! I hope you don't think she would ever do that!

Because the kind that would, don't do it out of necessity. They do it out of malice.

45 posted on 06/24/2008 4:20:39 PM PDT by 668 - Neighbor of the Beast (Teach your child to be an American. Take him out of public school.)
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To: John Will
Yeah I’d want a Doctor,Lawyer or a Chemist to not have to gone to college too.

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By the way, John, do you make your living directly or indirectly from the government mis-education industrial complex? ( Just wondering.)

46 posted on 06/24/2008 4:21:39 PM PDT by wintertime (Quick find the RAID!)
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To: donna

Our marriage became stronger because we bore our early growing pangs together. Now when times get tough, we have a thirty year history of pulling together through though times to keep us hopeful.


47 posted on 06/24/2008 4:23:11 PM PDT by keats5 (tolerance of intolerant people is cultural suicide)
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To: wintertime
Why don't you live your life the way you want to live it and let the rest of us decide how we live our lives? Or, would you prefer to be the all-knowing puppeteer.
48 posted on 06/24/2008 4:23:24 PM PDT by ItisaReligionofPeace
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To: rhema

What’s going on here is that people whose oldest children are now about twenty years old comprise the first generation of parents who themselves had open sexual lives before they married. Many of these people don’t care if their adult children are not chaste because they weren’t chaste before marriage. Even those people who regret having had sex before marriage may feel “hypocritical” telling their adult children to wait until marriage. If you don’t have to be married to have sex, most people will delay marriage. It’s time for a reverse sexual revolution.


49 posted on 06/24/2008 4:23:37 PM PDT by utahagen
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To: rhema

Marriage is not between two people.

Marriage is between two people and society.

Our society is no longer a fit partner.


50 posted on 06/24/2008 4:23:40 PM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: LucyT

If you have a pre-nup, you’re not really getting married.


51 posted on 06/24/2008 4:25:14 PM PDT by utahagen
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To: wintertime

I’m an Industrial Chemist working in R&D.


52 posted on 06/24/2008 4:25:31 PM PDT by John Will
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To: brwnsuga

Keep up the good work. My husband and I did likewise. Both kids got married young (out of college, but young!) and place great value on marriage. Our daughter has even had a baby while in grad school.

And her friends are all eager to marry. This generation of young women are looking for men who went to “man school” and a more traditional lifestyle than many want to believe.


53 posted on 06/24/2008 4:26:23 PM PDT by trimom
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To: nobama08

I have no problem with Reagan’s divorce. But McCain’s treatment of his first wife reveals his and Cindy’s lack of moral character. Neither makes a good role model. And his desire for a reunion of his former captors who he said tortured him was bizarre.


54 posted on 06/24/2008 4:27:02 PM PDT by Dante3
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To: wintertime

You are absolutely correct.


55 posted on 06/24/2008 4:28:29 PM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: ItisaReligionofPeace
I’m happy for your son, but there isn’t nothing wrong with enjoying life a bit before getting the accounting degree.
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Doing what? Getting tattoos? Dying his hair green? Wearing his pants below his crack? Getting herpes? Wasting 4 years learning nothing? Getting drunk? Cracking up cars? Smoking dope? Losing his virginity and possibly causing a young woman to lose hers?

Tell me?

Or.... is it much more enjoyable to be training in a sport full time during the day, and going to college at night ( part-time) to earn an accounting degree? Is becoming an Eagle Scout, being a youth leader in our church, organizing state wide dances for the church, going to Eastern Europe to work for our church for two years and learning fluent Russian, considered “enjoying life”. ?

56 posted on 06/24/2008 4:30:38 PM PDT by wintertime (Quick find the RAID!)
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To: ItisaReligionofPeace
Are you make a living directly or indirectly from the government mis-education industrial complex? ( Just wondering?)

Follow the money.

57 posted on 06/24/2008 4:33:03 PM PDT by wintertime (Quick find the RAID!)
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To: Arthur McGowan; nobama08

School should be viewed as an emergency measure for families that have been struck by disaster—like orphanages.
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Homeschooling is the healthiest and most natural way to rear and educate a child.

Yes, there will always be children who must be institutionalized for their education. It is a shame. We need orphanages too, but no one is saying it it the healthiest or most natural way to rear up a child.


58 posted on 06/24/2008 4:37:25 PM PDT by wintertime (Quick find the RAID!)
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To: wintertime

If your son had been in public school, he’d be slowed down so that he wouldn’t get ahead of the slowest in the class. Being bored, he would start looking at the girls’ tattoos, LOL!


59 posted on 06/24/2008 4:37:53 PM PDT by donna ("Don't let the sound of your own wheels drive you crazy.")
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To: wintertime

So that’s how you see the world, huh? You’re either a weirdo who does nothing but drugs and screw around or you become a 15 year-old college student, etc.? You’re weird.


60 posted on 06/24/2008 4:39:46 PM PDT by ItisaReligionofPeace
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