Best comment ever about this! A good sex life is crucial to a marriage. And it’s up to both to make it so.
Me and my wife had HUGE problems because of this. However, it was ME that was causing the problems. It took me a while to figure it out. Women like romance, wine and dine etc. They just don't want to be poked then have hubby go out and golf with the boys. It works that way in movies but not in real life.