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Send you wife an online copy of “The Wifely Duty” by Caitlin Flanagan, published in Atlantic Monthly a few years ago, and available online at:
http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200301/flanagan
It’s both a humorous and serious look at the disconnect between men and their wives and, surprisingly, takes the man’s perspective.
It turned around my relationship with my wife. I’ll tell you more details in private mail if you wish. Suffice it to say that the deal-closing line with my better half was when I told her, “I married you forever but if you want me to be less grumpy in middle age and later, you might ...”
Another tip to you, instead of flowers, might be to do the dishes. Tell her (truthfully) why. Dobson said that “sex begins in the kitchen.”
Cheers and good luck.
No point.
I am, Thank God, divorced.
I did. She started complaining that I wasn't doing them right!
TRUE!! One can be hung like a horse and still not get any. Sluts only care about penis size...real women want you to give yourself emotionally, etc.
I know. Cuz I am not hung like a horse and I do a lot around the house to make her less tired at the end of the night. The rewards are sweeeet!!
I have bookmarked the article. Aspects of it might even save my own marriage. :)
I’m sorta surprised by some of the posts I’ve been reading on these sex threads. I’m not familiar with the sex issues some seem to have. Sex is a daily thing here mostly so this once a week or 3 times a week is odd. I have a hard time believing that most couples don’t have sex daily.
Great article.