[Mercia]

hmm...

Well, thanks for the responses. It appears that however close our nations are perceived to be in terms of economics, foreign policy and general relations, the reality is very different indeed.

If it weren’t for the fact that we are English speaking nations, we would probably admit that we just don’t seem to get along at all.

[Gorzaloon]

If it weren’t for the fact that we are English speaking nations, we would probably admit that we just don’t seem to get along at all.

We do in person, though, don't we? It's just a Net Thing. I have met very little actual hostility there, and I doubt you have here- And half the misunderstandings are actually funny and readily resolved with a Pint.

On another note regarding the farmers. My family is from Downton, and we have not been near a sheep in a long time. There are lots of industrial estates and business offices around now.

[mrsmel]

hmm...

Well, thanks for the responses. It appears that however close our nations are perceived to be in terms of economics, foreign policy and general relations, the reality is very different indeed.

If it weren’t for the fact that we are English speaking nations, we would probably admit that we just don’t seem to get along at all.

IMO, it's precisely because we are so close historically, culturally, etc, that we squabble so much. (Just as family members squabble, while putting the "best foot forward" for strangers). Also, we seem to have certain, misguided expectations of each other, because we have so much in common. We are surprised when the differences appear, and seem to see those differences as value judgements upon ourselves, rather than just accepting slightly different development at face value.

As in-when we go to a really foreign country-one with totally different culture, no shared history, etc-we don't have those expectations, and can be more objective, or at least see it as curious and exotic. We can't do that with each other.

I've also wondered if there hasn't been a teensy bit of resentment that the US, of all former colonies largely settled by expat Brits, chose in such a dramatic fashion to distance itself from the "mother country"? I don't see such deep animosity between, for instance, Britain and Canada or Australia. At least, not of which I'm aware.

And many of us do have a feeling for Britain, which is why it matters to us what happens to your nation, in a personal way that wouldn't occur if we were discussing, say, Italy going down the tubes. What happens in your country perhaps hits too close to home for us.

Just some random theories, none very deeply thought-out :)