There’s no understanding those women if they choose that kind of treatment.
Maybe it’s because their kids are being held hostage to ensure their return.
I think some it is that the truly rich have such cushy lives, so it’s not that big of a deal to be kept in one’s home — when the home is a palace and you can escape to Europe/America at your whim.
The lower class (er, lower money) muzzies are more abused, I think.