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Women get help for sex addiction
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Posted on 12/10/2008 11:02:08 AM PST by traumer

It's more likely you'll hear of a man being a sex addict than a woman.

But Newsbeat's own research has found that there's a growing number of females seeking help for the condition in the UK.

Many therapists in the US say it's the same there.

Rob Weiss, a sex addiction specialist, estimates around 20% of sex addicts in America are women.

He works at the Life Healing Centre in Santa Fe, New Mexico, which specialises in sex addiction treatment at a price: around £20,000 for a month's therapy.

Newsbeat spent a day in rehab with the female patients.

Group therapy

The women addicts live together on campus in a red bricked bungalow.

There are five bedrooms and each room has two or three single beds. Patients are not allowed TVs, laptops, or mobile phones.

They start off their day by chanting "it's not your fault".

I compulsively had solo sex. I started touching myself about three or four times a day

Kandis, a 20-year-old sex addict

The councillors encourage the patients to do this because they believe sex addiction is a condition that doesn't deserve blame, but requires treatment.

Most of the group therapy sessions happen in the bungalow in the common area which is in the middle of the building.

There are a couple of couches and a small wooden coffee table on the side.

A couple of books are stacked on it. Holding cushions and covering themselves with blankets, the women are sitting on the sofas.

They're talking about their feelings. They list the characteristics of a sex addict as someone who's lonely, wants to be loved and craves physical intimacy.

Kandis is a 20-year-old sex addict. She was a prostitute for two years. Her motivation was her pimp.

(Excerpt) Read more at news.bbc.co.uk ...


TOPICS: News/Current Events; US: New Mexico
KEYWORDS: sexaddiction
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1 posted on 12/10/2008 11:02:10 AM PST by traumer
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LOL. I wont even comment!


2 posted on 12/10/2008 11:04:36 AM PST by sickoflibs (Obama says: "I only need to buy 40% of voters with handouts and trick another 11%")
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To: traumer

The withdrawal must be horrible.

(Ba-da-bump).


3 posted on 12/10/2008 11:04:36 AM PST by Wolfie
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To: traumer

Every time I hear about “Sex Addiction” my BS meter goes off really loud!


4 posted on 12/10/2008 11:05:07 AM PST by basil (Support the 2nd Amendment--buy another gun today)
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To: traumer

Wow - where to start....


5 posted on 12/10/2008 11:05:20 AM PST by The Louiswu (Celebrating 42 years as a fan of the Green Bay Packers! Go Pack Go.)
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To: traumer

I can cure them.......all............


6 posted on 12/10/2008 11:05:25 AM PST by Red Badger (Never has a man risen so far, so fast and is expected to do so much, for so many, with so little...)
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To: traumer

I’d bet they’re all GUILTY


7 posted on 12/10/2008 11:05:53 AM PST by VRWCmember
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To: traumer

Where were these women before I got married?


8 posted on 12/10/2008 11:06:22 AM PST by Long Island Pete (Facts are stubborn things.)
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To: traumer
They start off their day by chanting "it's not your fault".

and therefore will NEVER get better.

9 posted on 12/10/2008 11:06:30 AM PST by MrB (The 0bamanation: Marxism, Infanticide, Appeasement, Depression, Thuggery, and Censorship)
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To: Red Badger

Yeah, Mrs. Lucky says looking at me in the shower has pretty much cured her too.


10 posted on 12/10/2008 11:06:49 AM PST by Mr. Lucky
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To: Red Badger

Marriage might also cure them!


11 posted on 12/10/2008 11:07:09 AM PST by DaveyB (Those who are merciful to the cruel will be cruel to the merciful.)
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To: traumer

The Government can help !


12 posted on 12/10/2008 11:07:08 AM PST by traumer
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To: Wolfie

I'm a sex addict,too! We can co-miserate!................

13 posted on 12/10/2008 11:07:10 AM PST by Red Badger (Never has a man risen so far, so fast and is expected to do so much, for so many, with so little...)
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14 posted on 12/10/2008 11:08:08 AM PST by OB1kNOb (I've discovered the secret to making a small fortune in today's market....start with a large fortune)
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To: Red Badger
I can cure them.......all............

You can start with these two:


15 posted on 12/10/2008 11:08:16 AM PST by VRWCmember
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To: traumer

I could at least turn them into lesbians. C’mon, let me try.


16 posted on 12/10/2008 11:08:25 AM PST by Sig Sauer P220 (The Big 3 Auto Makers - Where Attention to Kwality is Jobe Won.)
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To: traumer

Paging Bill Clinton...


17 posted on 12/10/2008 11:08:39 AM PST by NCjim ("Lies have to be covered up, truth can run around naked." - Johnny Cash)
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To: traumer
20% of sex addicts in America are women.

Then why don't I ever see them at the meetings?

18 posted on 12/10/2008 11:09:04 AM PST by earlJam
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To: DaveyB

Yep. I can sell them a wedding cake for about half of what they’re paying for this.


19 posted on 12/10/2008 11:09:39 AM PST by Larry Lucido (Sorry, all out of free Brightsides and Lazamatazes. If you took two, please return one.)
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To: Long Island Pete
Where were these women before I got married?

Uh... as the saying goes, the one common factor in the equation is you. ;-)

20 posted on 12/10/2008 11:09:47 AM PST by r9etb
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