Hey Party Girls: Guys find appeal in girls who DON'T booz it

The Washington Times ^ | 3/10/09 | Jennifer Harper

[sten]

no kidding. i’m in florida now (clearwater beach area) and most of the women i run into violate:

o no smoking (forgot that one)
o no drugs
o no crazy tattoos or piercings
o not a whore

and sometimes a lack of teeth becomes an issue.

forget the desire to find a very intelligent woman. these days, if she can go 30 minutes without coughing up half a lung while staying conscious... it’s a plus. (my female friends in california keep asking why i’m not dating... if they only knew the selection)

ok... ok... there are quite a few nice looking ladies, but the above 4 bullet items are usually a problem. i just don’t see how i can compromise any more then i already have (not even spec’ing out education, personality or looks)

[SIDENET]

I'm in a very liberal area and the women I find tend to be:

-tattooed and heavily pierced

-neurotic as hell

-promiscuous enough to make an alley cat blush

Lack of teeth, smoking, and drugs haven't been issues so far. I guess I should count myself lucky

[wardaddy]

a woman with a slight buzz is fun

beyond that they are clumsy and leaden

[Niteflyr]

Been around the block (58/male) ..actually could write a book called
“Around The Block”...and part of becoming an educated aware male is to understand the psychological fact that ALL women are a mixture of the “Whore/Madonna” . The guys that buy into the idea that they can play with the Whore a marry the Madonna type are always the ones that end up with the wife who runs off with the poolboy and are totally blindsided....(”gee and I aways thought she was such a good girl”). I call it the “Bridges of Madison County” dynamic. Story of the “good girl” in rural America who was married to a nice supportive guy but was all to eager to drop her panties for the traveling photograper who breezes into town. Of course the husband never found out and she stayed married to him but was secretly in love with the “world traveler” for the rest of her life. Point? Virtually ALLl women are party girls in the right situation and with the right guy. You are deluding yourself to think otherwise. It’s more of a character issue than anything else...and that’s what I pay attention to. Things like “tramp stamp” tattoos
don’t really mean anything...

[sten]

if she is weak enough to fall for self mutilating fads and self destructive habits... odds are, she will be easily manipulated by the passing salesman

and the teachings of the left, while removing the negative stigma associated with being an... easy target... have helped that along quite nicely

[Niteflyr]

My sister who is sixty just got a tattoo on her ankle and is of the highest character. Though I don’t care for tattoos myself you have no idea what a person’s reasons are for getting one and if you are a man you don’t think like a woman. Just because it is your opinion it is self-mutilation and a fad doesn’t make that opinion an unassailable fact. The biggest mistake men make is thinking women are wired like men. Your reasoning of their behavior (if you are male) has little bearing on what’s actually going on.

[sten]

i do not claim to know what is going on 100% of the time. 85+% is good enough.

(pure guess work coming up)

as for your sister, at 60 that is a major break from the norm, assuming she had never had a tattoo before. this would indicate a desire for a break from the norm/every day (was there a divorce/death/major life change)... unless its a remembrance tattoo, which would account for the change in attitude (but that would rarely be located on the ankle)

tough to tell without seeing it.

reading someone walking up to them takes more then a single component. mannerisms, dress, body language, hair, accessories, etc .. all have an impact

[CougarGA7]

I say this about chosing a woman, but I’m sure it applies to chosing a man too. You have brains, beauty, and sanity. But you only get to pick two.

[DeLaine]

I think you can tell I am looking for brains and sanity, beauty would be asking a lot. :P