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$4 billion abuse industry rooted in deceptions and lies(Domestic)
enterstageright ^ | 6 July, 2009 | Carey Roberts

Posted on 07/06/2009 4:04:31 AM PDT by marktwain

Erin Pizzey is a genial woman with snow-white hair, cherubic cheeks, and an easy smile. It wasn't always that way. The daughter of an English diplomat, she founded the world's first shelter for battered women in 1971. To her surprise, she discovered that most of the women in her shelter were as violent as the men they had left.

When Pizzey wrote a book revealing this sordid truth, she encountered a firestorm of protest. "Abusive telephone calls to my home, death threats, and bomb scares, became a way of living for me and for my family. Finally, the bomb squad asked me to have all my mail delivered to their head quarters," she would later reveal.

According a recent report, the domestic violence industry continues to engage in information control tactics, spewing a dizzying series of half-truths, white lies, and outright prevarications. The report, "Fifty Domestic Violence Myths," is published by RADAR, Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting: http://www.mediaradar.org/docs/RADARreport-50-DV-Myths.pdf

How often have you heard the mantra-like claim, "domestic violence is all about power and control"? That's code for the feminist dogma that domestic violence is rooted in men's insatiable need to dominate and oppress the women in their lives.

And the obvious solution to partner abuse? Eliminate the patriarchy!

I know it all sounds far-fetched, but that's what the gender ideologues who get their funding from the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) believe. And no surprise these programs have been an abject failure. As Dr. Angela Parmley of the Department of Justice once admitted, "We have no evidence to date that VAWA has led to a decrease in the overall levels of violence against women."

Once you blame the whole problem of partner abuse on patriarchal dominance, the women who proudly call themselves the "VAWA Mafia" find themselves compelled to dress up the fable with a series of corollary myths.

Here are some examples: When a woman attacks her boyfriend, claim she was only acting in self-defense. Shrug off her assault with the "He had it coming" line. Aver her short stature prevents her from ever hurting her man. Or assert she grew up in an abusive household, as if that somehow lets her off the hook.

Above all, the ideologues will never admit that partner violence is more common among lesbians than heterosexual couples. Just consider the case of Jessica Kalish, the 56-year-old Florida woman who was stabbed 222 times last October with a Phillips screwdriver wielded by ex-girlfriend Carol Anne Burger. But no one dared call it "domestic violence."

Once you begin to play tricks with the truth, you need to invent ever grander prevarications. So sit back and get ready for a good chuckle, because there's not a shred of truth to any of these claims regularly put forth by the domestic abuse industry:

1. A marriage license is a hitting license. (Truth is, an intact marriage is the safest place for men and women alike.)

2. Domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women. (The leading causes of female injury are unintentional falls, motor vehicle accidents, and over-exertion. Domestic violence is not even on the list.)

3. The March of Dimes reports that battering is the leading cause of birth defects. (The March of Dimes has never done such a study.)

4. Women never make false allegations of domestic violence. (That's the biggest whopper of all.)

5. Super Bowl Sunday is the biggest day of the year for violence against women. (Will the abuse industry never tire of its demagoguery?)

These are just five of the 50 domestic violence myths documented in the RADAR report. As former Senator Daniel Patrick Moynihan once deadpanned, "You're entitled to your own opinions; you're not entitled to your own facts." Hopefully the $4 billion partner abuse industry will begin to pay attention.

Carey Roberts is a Staff Writer for The New Media Alliance. The New Media Alliance is a non-profit (501c3) national coalition of writers, journalists and grass-roots media outlets.


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: abuse; domestic; msm; myths
When you read the actual research, you find that abuse by women on men is as common as by men on women. Researchers say that domestic violence is most commonly a "dance of mutual destruction". I tried to get an article to this effect published in a local base publication, but it was refused. I believe they would not print it because it was not politically correct.
1 posted on 07/06/2009 4:04:32 AM PDT by marktwain
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To: marktwain

All of the leftist industries are rooted in myths.


2 posted on 07/06/2009 4:20:35 AM PDT by Leftism is Mentally Deranged
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To: marktwain
Super Bowl Sunday is the biggest day of the year for violence against women.

Obviously written by a chick who knows nothing about football.

Super Sunday is a snoozer. The most testosterone-charged week of the NFL season is conference championship weekend.

3 posted on 07/06/2009 4:30:09 AM PDT by HIDEK6
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4 posted on 07/06/2009 4:31:54 AM PDT by narses (http://www.theobamadisaster.com/)
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To: Leftism is Mentally Deranged

“myths” is the kind term; “lies” is the accurate term.


5 posted on 07/06/2009 4:42:11 AM PDT by Senator John Blutarski (The progress of government: republic, democracy, technocracy, bureaucracy, plutocracy, kleptocracy,)
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To: marktwain
I was with a group, having drinks, when the conversation turned to domestic discord.
One lady was very strident in her views, proclaiming that men were bullies....my response was, did she know anyone that was subject to domestic discord, the answer was no....did she having any friends that were subject to male violence, the answer was no...needless to say the conversation was over....
6 posted on 07/06/2009 4:50:11 AM PDT by thinking
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To: marktwain
Moonbats (aka far left) prefer the sugarcoated lie, over the sometimes painful truth, practically every time. The truth does not guarantee to make them feel good about themselves.
7 posted on 07/06/2009 5:00:51 AM PDT by jacknhoo (Luke 12:51. Think ye, that I am come to give peace on earth? I tell you, no; but separation.)
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To: HIDEK6

>>Super Sunday is a snoozer. The most testosterone-charged week of the NFL season is conference championship weekend.<<

Yep. That’s when I cruise the neighborhood looking for a good woman to beat up. And I don’t even like football!


8 posted on 07/06/2009 5:03:59 AM PDT by RobRoy (This too will pass. But it will hurt like a you know what.)
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Here in Colorado Springs, CO I have witnessed domestic violence that occurred from people living in the same apartment complex as a methamphetamine lab. The cops would come to take the guy away and about two weeks later a new guy would be moved in. About two months after that it would happen all over again. Anecdotal evidence to be sure, but not without reasoning.


9 posted on 07/06/2009 5:15:22 AM PDT by LuxMaker (The Constitution is a mere thing of wax in the hands of the judiciary, Thomas J 1819)
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To: marktwain; sickoflibs
1. A marriage license is a hitting license. (Truth is, an intact marriage is the safest place for men and women alike.)

2. Domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women. (The leading causes of female injury are unintentional falls, motor vehicle accidents, and over-exertion. Domestic violence is not even on the list.)

3. The March of Dimes reports that battering is the leading cause of birth defects. (The March of Dimes has never done such a study.)

Interesting post, marktwain

10 posted on 07/06/2009 6:14:58 AM PDT by GOPJ (Central park didn't hit 85 degrees in June this year - last time was 1916. Al Gore is nuts.)
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To: RobRoy

LOL


11 posted on 07/06/2009 6:45:57 AM PDT by melsec (A Proud Aussie)
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To: RobRoy
Yep. That’s when I cruise the neighborhood looking for a good woman to beat up. And I don’t even like football!

*chuckle*

*snort*

12 posted on 07/06/2009 6:51:07 AM PDT by TChris (There is no freedom without the possibility of failure.)
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