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(Slippery Slope Watch): Is polyamory the next sexual revolution?
Newsweek ^ | Jessica Bennett | Jessica Bennett

Posted on 07/29/2009 4:05:56 PM PDT by Publius804

Only You. And You. And You.

Polyamory—relationships with multiple, mutually consenting partners—has a coming-out party.

Terisa Greenan and her boyfriend, Matt, are enjoying a rare day of Seattle sun, sharing a beet carpaccio on the patio of a local restaurant. Matt holds Terisa's hand, as his 6-year-old son squeezes in between the couple to give Terisa a kiss. His mother, Vera, looks over and smiles; she's there with her boyfriend, Larry. Suddenly it starts to rain, and the group must move inside. In the process, they rearrange themselves: Matt's hand touches Vera's leg. Terisa gives Larry a kiss. The child, seemingly unconcerned, puts his arms around his mother and digs into his meal.

Terisa and Matt and Vera and Larry—along with Scott, who's also at this dinner—are not swingers, per se; they aren't pursuing casual sex. Nor are they polygamists of the sort portrayed on HBO's Big Love; they aren't religious, and they don't have multiple wives. But they do believe in "ethical nonmonogamy," or engaging in loving, intimate relationships with more than one person—based upon the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. They are polyamorous, to use the term of art applied to multiple-partner families like theirs, and they wouldn't want to live any other way.

(Excerpt) Read more at newsweek.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: episcopalchurch; episcopalians; gaymarriage; polyamory; romney
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1 posted on 07/29/2009 4:05:56 PM PDT by Publius804
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To: Publius804

Yes and Bestiality and Pedophilia if the Obamunists have their way. Oh I almost forgot Necrophelia.


2 posted on 07/29/2009 4:08:30 PM PDT by screaminsunshine (!!)
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To: Publius804

No


3 posted on 07/29/2009 4:08:52 PM PDT by Shanty Shaker
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To: Publius804

His mother,,,, *creepy*


4 posted on 07/29/2009 4:09:25 PM PDT by Mmogamer (<This space for lease>)
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To: Publius804

That poor kid. He is going to grow up to be a basket case.


5 posted on 07/29/2009 4:10:28 PM PDT by Marie2 (The second mouse gets the cheese.)
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To: Publius804

And their dog and the sheep are pouting over in the corner because they aren’t included.


6 posted on 07/29/2009 4:10:31 PM PDT by taillightchaser (When a democrat says "The American people" you know the next words out of his mouth will be lies.)
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To: Publius804

I personally don’t care what people do behind closed doors (consenting adults and all that) That is their business. I am tired of their personal business infringing on my beliefs left and right in the “public domain”.


7 posted on 07/29/2009 4:10:46 PM PDT by Michael Barnes (When, America?)
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To: Publius804

“ethical nonmonogamy,” an oxymoron if I’ve ever heard one.


8 posted on 07/29/2009 4:11:02 PM PDT by Califreak (My word calibrator's in the shop)
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To: Publius804

‘ethical non-morality’???

*sigh*

Newsweek is really scrapping the bottom of the barrel these days, aren’t they. I guess that’s all there is left to do when your readers are all leftists and marxists. It’s the stuff that interests them.


9 posted on 07/29/2009 4:14:16 PM PDT by penelopesire ("The only CHANGE you will get with the Democrats is the CHANGE left in your pocket")
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To: Publius804

Why do these people think we care what they do in their spare time?


10 posted on 07/29/2009 4:15:13 PM PDT by Rodebrecht (If everybody just left everybody else alone, everybody would be a lot happier.)
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To: Publius804

This is the problem with granting homosexual “rights” in the first place. No pun intended, but once you gave them an inch, they wanted a mile. That opened the door (again, NPI) but then came the transgender creeps, now the poly folks, then the bigamists, group marriage, child marriage, et al creeps.

This country should’ve learned to say NO, NO, NO, and NO along time ago.


11 posted on 07/29/2009 4:15:35 PM PDT by A_Former_Democrat
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To: Publius804

Poly- relationships are next - then sexual relations with animals is my bet - unless something even more twisted can be found


12 posted on 07/29/2009 4:16:15 PM PDT by SoftballMominVA
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To: Publius804

Otherwise know as slutting around.


13 posted on 07/29/2009 4:17:06 PM PDT by US Navy Vet
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To: Publius804

Bill O’Reily talked about this the other night; Newsweek talking about the same thing. Irony?


14 posted on 07/29/2009 4:18:37 PM PDT by cranked
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To: Publius804

‘Ethical nonmonogamy.’

Whatever. One of ‘em will get jealous or a disease and that’ll be the end of that.


15 posted on 07/29/2009 4:19:50 PM PDT by BradyLS (DO NOT FEED THE BEARS!)
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To: SoftballMominVA

Yes, and the left will say we are intolerant when we say those things are wrong too.

They make me sick.


16 posted on 07/29/2009 4:21:01 PM PDT by Califreak (My word calibrator's in the shop)
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To: Publius804

Wow, Newsweek has dropped to Obama-like depths.

It’s the GM of mags... and will suffer the same ultimate fate.

Hey Newsweek “writers”, better start searching for a job in the Obamaloon administration asap.


17 posted on 07/29/2009 4:22:51 PM PDT by Da Coyote
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To: Publius804
Weren't these just called communes in the 60's?

My favorite part of the article:

Terisa, 41, is at the center of this particular polyamorous cluster. A filmmaker and actress, she is well-spoken, slender and attractive, with dark, shoulder-length hair, porcelain skin—and a powerful need for attention.

I guess if you need several live-in boyfriends, "having a powerful need for attention" is an understatement.

18 posted on 07/29/2009 4:23:12 PM PDT by keepitreal (Obama brings change: an international crisis (terrorism) within 6 months)
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To: Publius804

While I personally don’t agree with the practice It’s not up to me to impose my personal moral code on consenting adults.

We may be aware that their choices aren’t the best, smartest, or morally healthiest, but really it’s not up to us to judge them. They will have a higher power to answer to some day.


19 posted on 07/29/2009 4:24:04 PM PDT by AussieJoe
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To: Publius804
I am told by reliable sources (my wife), that Oprah has been pushing this crap for years on her show. It's surprising it's not bigger already.

If two men can get married, why not two men and a woman? And, what about the family dog? Fido needs love too. Don't they all have a right to pursue happiness? (is the sarcasm tag really necessary here?)

20 posted on 07/29/2009 4:24:10 PM PDT by OldDeckHand (No Socialized Medicine, No Way, No How, No Time)
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To: SoftballMominVA

Probably something for the NAMBLA crowd.


21 posted on 07/29/2009 4:24:14 PM PDT by Menehune56 ("Let them hate so long as they fear" (Oderint Dum Metuant), Lucius Accius, (170 BC - 86 BC))
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To: Publius804
"Larry and Terisa married last year—with Scott's permission—in part for tax purposes. Larry owns the house they all live in, and Scott pays rent. Household expenses require a complicated spreadsheet. Terisa, Larry, and Scott all have their own bedrooms, but sleeping arrangements must be discussed. Larry snores, so Terisa spends most nights with Scott—which means she must be mindful of making up for lost time with Larry. Terisa and Larry only recently began dating Matt and Vera, after meeting on Facebook, and now every Friday, the couple bring their son over to the house and the three of them stay all weekend. Matt will usually sleep with Terisa, and Vera with Larry, or they'll switch it up, depending on how everyone feels."

Imagine how much time and creativity these people would have in their lives if there were less people involved....LOL! :o

22 posted on 07/29/2009 4:24:35 PM PDT by BossLady (Obama = "Narcissus and the Pool of Corruption")
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To: Publius804

I wonder how many of them are bipolar?


23 posted on 07/29/2009 4:24:38 PM PDT by fso301
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To: Publius804
Group sex and beet carpaccio.

Yep, that about sums up Seattle.

24 posted on 07/29/2009 4:25:10 PM PDT by mojito
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To: Publius804

Quislings.


26 posted on 07/29/2009 4:26:28 PM PDT by Mariner
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To: Publius804

Up to 5 wives per man, remember? Now what religion was that? ;>


27 posted on 07/29/2009 4:27:08 PM PDT by combat_boots (The Lion of Judah cometh. Hallelujah. Gloria Patri, Fili et Spiritus Sancti.)
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To: Publius804

Newsweek in a desperate bid to draw readers.


28 posted on 07/29/2009 4:27:53 PM PDT by libh8er
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To: Publius804
Well that's pretty much a fact of life in this hedonistic society of ours already.I say that the next big thing...the next big "civil rights" push...will be "loving" children.

And I guarantee that it will be the Supreme Court of *my* home state (The Gay State) that will be the first to strike down "age of consent" laws.

29 posted on 07/29/2009 4:28:05 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Christian+Veteran=Terrorist)
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To: combat_boots
Up to 5 wives per man, remember? Now what religion was that? ;>

Episcopalian?

30 posted on 07/29/2009 4:30:06 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Christian+Veteran=Terrorist)
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To: Gay State Conservative

That’s not a marriage, that’s a sentence.


31 posted on 07/29/2009 4:31:22 PM PDT by nufsed (Release the birth certificate, passport and school records.)
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To: libh8er

They will owe a lot of stores to clean the puke off of their magazine racks.


32 posted on 07/29/2009 4:31:26 PM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (The Democrat Party: a criminal organization masquerading as a political party)
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To: combat_boots

TROP calls for up to 4 wives. Is that what you had in mind? Sometimes the guy only keeps 3 “permanent” wives leaving the 4th slot open for very quick relationships.


33 posted on 07/29/2009 4:33:07 PM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (The Democrat Party: a criminal organization masquerading as a political party)
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To: Publius804

Actually its been going on forever but now they just want attention for being “special”.


34 posted on 07/29/2009 4:34:57 PM PDT by cripplecreek (Seniors, the new shovel ready project under socialized medicine.)
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To: Gay State Conservative
Has Mutt Romney weighed in on this issue yet?
35 posted on 07/29/2009 4:35:52 PM PDT by Beagle8U (Free Republic -- One stop shopping ....... It's the Conservative Super WalMart for news .)
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To: OldDeckHand

Actually, Robert Heinlein’s novel “The Moon Is A Harsh Mistress” looks upon this practice pretty favorably. BUT, in the novel, it was a custom born out of extreme conditions on the Moon colonies.

I dunno. They’re free to purse it, I suppose. It just seems to me that someone in that sort of relationship will always come out the loser.


36 posted on 07/29/2009 4:36:16 PM PDT by BradyLS (DO NOT FEED THE BEARS!)
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To: taillightchaser
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Pouting Sheep

37 posted on 07/29/2009 4:37:15 PM PDT by skimask
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To: Publius804

Hey, my bubble wrap is offended.


38 posted on 07/29/2009 4:38:42 PM PDT by Nachum (The complete Obama list at www.nachumlist.com)
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To: A_Former_Democrat

Exactly!

If you redefine Marriage, it can be redefined to mean anything. If you can claim the 14th amendment requires “Marriage Equality” then there is no stopping other groups from claiming the same protection.

After all, if gays have a “right” to marry whomever they wish, then so do bigamists and polygamists.


39 posted on 07/29/2009 4:40:36 PM PDT by spikeytx86 (Pray for Democrats for they have been brainwashed by their fruity little club.)
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To: Publius804

Is the caused by eating “beet carpaccio”? That seemed to be significant to the story for Newsweak.


40 posted on 07/29/2009 4:41:32 PM PDT by Proud2BeRight
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To: BossLady

Right now, in the scenario described, Scott is the big loser. Terisa the big winner. Larry owns the house and married Scott’s girl, “with his permission,” but Scott pays the rent. I’ll bet for ol’ go-along Scott there’s not nearly enough tingle and way too much tangle. Especially with a kid to complicate things.


41 posted on 07/29/2009 4:43:04 PM PDT by BradyLS (DO NOT FEED THE BEARS!)
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To: Publius804

Terisa you’re a slut plain and simple and so is your so-called boytoy and husband. You’re ALL sluts.


42 posted on 07/29/2009 4:43:28 PM PDT by MissDairyGoodnessVT ("Economy is the method by which we prepare today to afford the improvements of tomorrow"C.Coolidge)
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To: Publius804
Researchers are just beginning to study the phenomenon, but the few who do estimate that openly polyamorous families in the United States number more than half a million, with thriving contingents in nearly every major city.

500,000 families? Minimum three people per family = 1.5 million?

Sounds like the same fraudulent numbers strategy the homo crowd are using by over stating their numbers (10%)for legitimacy

43 posted on 07/29/2009 4:44:45 PM PDT by Popman (Joe Biden REALLY can't be Vice President, can he ?)
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Exactly what I thought. How’d they get that number?

I’ll do my own head count............I estimate 9,832 such relationships. It was a scientific process, don’t you worry...


44 posted on 07/29/2009 4:46:49 PM PDT by Future Snake Eater ("Get out of the boat and walk on the water with us!”--Sen. Joe Biden)
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To: Publius804

Yuch....I stoped reading after beet carpaccio.........Bunch of lefty nutcases can keep their weirdness on the Left Coast............


45 posted on 07/29/2009 4:46:56 PM PDT by jakerobins ( NO)
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To: skimask

Where on earth do you find this stuff?


46 posted on 07/29/2009 4:49:02 PM PDT by taillightchaser (When a democrat says "The American people" you know the next words out of his mouth will be lies.)
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To: Publius804
IF anyone still wonders why America is in a race to the bottom, all they need to do is read articles like this. We have rebelled against God as a nation, and have all but shoved Him out of America! It is obvious that He has withdrawn his hand of Blessings and protection from us!

Obama is the most glaring example of what happens when a country trades the only true God, for a man who they look to for saving them! God has given America what they voted for. A godless communist who is destroying us as a nation, and a people.

47 posted on 07/29/2009 4:54:46 PM PDT by NRA2BFree
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To: Michael Barnes

Yep - I have said on Freepers before: I am not asking people to go back to the closet, but at least stay in the bedroom!!!


48 posted on 07/29/2009 5:07:32 PM PDT by ExTxMarine (For whatsoe'ver their sufferings were before; that change they covet makes them suffer more. -Dryden)
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To: Publius804
Terisa and Matt and Vera and Larry

"Bob and Carol and Ted and Alice." Just as long as we're open and honest about it. Or see Oneill and Oneill, Open Marriage by a couple who touted it and ended up in a predictably bitter divirce shortly after.

But hey, when your goal is to disintegrate the structure of marriage, any old clusterf*ck will do.

49 posted on 07/29/2009 5:08:34 PM PDT by hinckley buzzard
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To: Future Snake Eater
I estimate 9,832 such relationships.

Don't forget to include all various species of animals who could be part of a "ethical nonmonogamy" grouping.

Dog, cat, parrot, dolphin and gerbils for the homosexuals etc

I guess it could be millions of families if you include of those

50 posted on 07/29/2009 5:11:23 PM PDT by Popman (Joe Biden REALLY can't be Vice President, can he ?)
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