When you say no parent gets such a thing wrong — do you mean the name thing, or what happened as far as the Meningitis story?
Because if you meant it about names - then I have to tell you that’s simply NOT solid ground to stand on. Just read through the posts on this thread alone and you will see it’s something MANY parent do. Getting things screwed up as far as what happened when a kid was admitted to the hospital for a possible serious illness - yeah, that doesn’t really happen...
The latter....a parent NEVER gets wrong the name of a child...and especially so young a one....with such a serious, life-threatening condition. The event becomes synonymous with the child, unless the parent is an utter narcissist (heavy pro-abort bisexual would certainly fit).