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Woman 'addicted to abortion' releases memoir
National Post ^ | October 2, 2009 | Mary Vallis

Posted on 10/03/2009 12:31:31 PM PDT by kennedy

Fifty one rejection letters -- that is the number Irene Vilar received before she finally found someone to publish a tale so extreme it would surely be fiction if it wasn't her personal story: A woman who says she had 15 abortions and describes it as an addiction.

The book, Impossible Motherhood: Testimony of an Abortion Addict -- a graphic and disturbing tale of one woman's abortions and her personal quest to understand her actions -- is bound to provoke a fury when it is released next week.

It is no surprise that publishers backed away. Ms. Vilar says the dozens of rejection letters "map the psychic realm" of the United States, where abortion remains such a volatile topic that a Kansas doctor who provided the service was shot and killed during a Sunday church service in May.

Now 40 years old and raising two daughters, aged three and five, Ms. Vilar has changed public records to protect her family's privacy and refused to go on a book tour.

She is prepared for her book to be misunderstood. She takes full responsibility for her actions, is adamantly pro-choice and does not intend for her book to become part of the divisive anti-abortion debate. Indeed, she describes herself as "an extreme pathological case."

"I'm solely responsible for my actions and that's what this book is about, a search for understanding and self-accountability," she said in an interview from her home in Colorado. "I refuse to see myself as a victim."

(Excerpt) Read more at nationalpost.com ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: abortion; abortionaddict; abortionadict; addiction; bookreview; infanticide; irenevilar; memoir; postabortivewomen
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To: kennedy
Okay, I understand getting drunk. I understand getting high. I understand doing freaky sex. How in hell do you get addicted to that?
42 posted on 10/03/2009 3:04:43 PM PDT by RichInOC (No! BAD Rich! (What'd I say?))
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To: TigersEye
A dog is sentient and conscious but is not self-aware. There is evidence that plants are sensitive to pain (the most basic definition of sentient), but they sure are not conscious, self-aware, or minimally intelligent.

But in my above post I said that a fetus is not a "sentient person" before week six -- and that definition of "sentient person" describes probably every conceivable injured or ill child or adult human (child being any human after the first trimester).

43 posted on 10/03/2009 3:29:50 PM PDT by Aroostook25
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To: Tahoe3002
Anyone who has more than two abortions should get their tubes tied.

Agreed!

44 posted on 10/03/2009 3:31:21 PM PDT by Aroostook25
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To: kennedy; informavoracious; larose; RJR_fan; Prospero; Conservative Vermont Vet; ...
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Obama Says A Baby Is A Punishment

Obama: “If they make a mistake, I don’t want them punished with a baby.”

45 posted on 10/03/2009 3:34:33 PM PDT by narses ("These are the days when the Christian is expected to praise every creed except his own.")
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evil incarnate

46 posted on 10/03/2009 3:54:46 PM PDT by A.A. Cunningham (Barry Soetoro is a Kenyan communist)
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To: Aroostook25

An individual who is 6 weeks post-conception is the same person he or she was at 5 weeks post-conception. From Conception to week 6, or month six, or six years old, or 60, every person expriences a continuous process of development and change marking the sequential stages of the same human life.


47 posted on 10/03/2009 3:57:22 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Mammalia Primatia Hominidae Homo sapiens. Still working on the "sapiens" part.)
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To: kennedy

Wonder how long it will be before the two living children find out their mother whacked FIFTEEN of their brothers and sisters? G-d’s patience is going to run out; sooner or later...


48 posted on 10/03/2009 3:59:22 PM PDT by who knows what evil? (G-d saved more animals than people on the ark...www.siameserescue.org.)
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To: Aroostook25; TigersEye
"IMO, in order to be a "person" one must be sentient, conscious, self-aware, and at least minimally intelligent."

None of those qualities --- sentient, conscious, self-aware, etc. --- are permanent or continuous; all of them are intermittent.

If you say those qualities must be both fully developed and operative, then every human being ceases to be a person for about 8 hours out of every 24.

And I myself am not a person until after my first cup of coffee.

I think your definition is open to criticism.

49 posted on 10/03/2009 4:03:57 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Mammalia Primatia Hominidae Homo sapiens. Still working on the "sapiens" part.)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
If you say those qualities must be both fully developed and operative, then every human being ceases to be a person for about 8 hours out of every 24.

Which 8 hours? The 8 hours mesmerized by the boob tube or internet, or the 8 hours working for somebody else? ;-)

50 posted on 10/03/2009 4:31:06 PM PDT by Aroostook25
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To: Mrs. Don-o

This is so sick!!! =(


51 posted on 10/03/2009 4:32:23 PM PDT by ANKE69 (German Conservative and proud of it!!!)
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To: Aroostook25; Mrs. Don-o
A dog is sentient and conscious but is not self-aware.

I don't agree with that either. All beings with mind, which includes all biological forms of life, have some level of self-awareness. Any creature that reacts defensively or offensively demonstrates a level of self-awareness. If an animal didn't see itself as distinct from "other" there wouldn't exist a cause to perceive fear or aggression.

People in comas have no apparent consciousness, no apparent self-awareness and no apparent intelligence. There are a number of conditions that would render a person apparently lacking in all of those attributes. Simply being knocked unconscious would do it.

52 posted on 10/03/2009 4:56:37 PM PDT by TigersEye (Everybody knows it's a spotted dog...)
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To: Aroostook25
"Which 8 hours? The 8 hours mesmerized by the boob tube or internet, or the 8 hours working for somebody else? ;-)"

LOL! Actually, I have splendid, complex, densely plotted, narratively coherent dreams when I'm asleep (much more so than my waking life) --- so maybe it's only when I'm in the Zzzz's that I'm a "person" in a fully Aristookian sense! :o)

53 posted on 10/03/2009 5:10:36 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Mammalia Primatia Hominidae Homo sapiens. Still working on the "sapiens" part.)
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To: TigersEye; Aroostook25
"All beings with mind, which includes all biological forms of life, have some level of self-awareness."

Quite true, TigersEye.

I am aware of three kinds of entities which are clearly persons: (1) divine (2) angelic and (3) human entities. These are the ones I know of now.

But I have often wondered (and discussed with my boys) how one would classify still other entities as "personal" or "non-personal" in the moral sense.

This is a problem which presents itself intriguingly in the StarTrek world. Humans, Klingons, Romulans, Vulcans, Andorians, etc. are clearly persons. Data the Android, possibly not (but in some episodes he does seem to be able to self-program, which raises other questions.)

If you encountered a life form that oscillated between a self-aware stage and one which was not apparently self-aware-- maybe it had a seemingly passive pupate form alternating with a thoughtful, even affectionate, larval FReeper form :o) --- would it be OK without their consent to marinate them in Italian dressing, saute them and eat them all when they were in their pupa stage?

I would judge not.

I would judge that any being which has a nature that could at some stage be personal, has to be regarded as possessing the dignity of a person.

Even if that individual is at various points unreasonable, insensate, poorly developed, incoherent, or even totally unconscious. You can see how that applies to us, too.

54 posted on 10/03/2009 5:32:28 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Mammalia Primatia Hominidae Homo sapiens. Still working on the "sapiens" part.)
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To: ANKE69

Don’t know my way around yet... So, please forgive me if I make a mess of things....
Btw, “hi” everybody. Glad to be here!


55 posted on 10/03/2009 5:41:46 PM PDT by ANKE69 (German Conservative and proud of it!!!)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
I would judge that any being which has a nature that could at some stage be personal, has to be regarded as possessing the dignity of a person.

I agree with that. I like the introduction of Data in the contemplation too. A computer with AI (artificial intelligence) can display all of the measurable signs of consciousness, intelligence and self-awareness. Possibly giving a better performance than any human could.

Should its existence be given the same regard as a human life because it displays those observable characteristics? What if it acts like it feels pain and emotions? What if it says it does and argues its own case with eloquence? Would any of that actually make it a living being? Would it really have a mind?

Even if that individual is at various points unreasonable, insensate, poorly developed, incoherent, or even totally unconscious. You can see how that applies to us, too.

I sure hope so. I thought you were talking about me until I got to the second sentence. ;^)

56 posted on 10/03/2009 6:33:37 PM PDT by TigersEye (Everybody knows it's a spotted dog...)
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To: ANKE69
Howdy! Welcome to Free Republic. I hope you find something to like here. Lots of subjects to get into and lots of opinions about them. As it suggests on the FR homepage you should have fun doing it.

FRegards, TigersEye

57 posted on 10/03/2009 6:42:00 PM PDT by TigersEye (Everybody knows it's a spotted dog...)
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To: TigersEye
I agree with that. I like the introduction of Data in the contemplation too. A computer with AI (artificial intelligence) can display all of the measurable signs of consciousness, intelligence and self-awareness. Possibly giving a better performance than any human could.

Data seems a lot more "human" than many liberal socialists.

59 posted on 10/03/2009 7:29:00 PM PDT by Aroostook25
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To: Aroostook25
Perhaps socialists are communists in the larval form.

!!

60 posted on 10/04/2009 4:30:15 AM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Mammalia Primatia Hominidae Homo sapiens. Still working on the "sapiens" part.)
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