Can't advise "abandon the house" but I got out a long time ago and am glad for it.
>>Can’t advise “abandon the house” but I got out a long time ago and am glad for it<<
Things are settling down a bit — targeting the next year or so. I have spent a few years in Texas, so I will move as near to DFW as I can get, since I travel so much.
I am not going to stay where I am not wanted. When someone says “you work too hard and are too frugal — you must be punished,” I take that as a sign I am not wanted.