Dating is just dumb. It’s kind of like a job interview, people wear clothes they wouldn’t normally wear, go to places they wouldn’t normally go, eat food they wouldn’t normally eat, talk about things they wouldn’t normally talk about; and then if the relationship progresses they eventually wonder why the person is so different than when they were dating.
Smart thinking
Like sensuous complementary dresses, pants, or skirts. Oh perish the thought of enticing creatures!! The bane of existence!! lol.
go to places they wouldn’t normally go
Like to a fantastic opera and or sporting event or intelligently designed and written play or for a walk on the ocean. Oh once again hurt me. I am in agony at the cultural or engaging outing!!!!!!!! Please get thy home to watch CNN immediately (back in our day) and to picking my nose!! lol.
eat food they wouldn’t normally eat
Like mouth watering prime rib perfectly cooked with all the accoutrements and find desert that melts on the tongue. PERISH!! PERISH the thought of fine dining!!!!!!!!!!
talk about things they wouldn’t normally talk about
Hell I always say exactly what I want to say whenever I want to say it. I can't STAND when someone sits across from me and looks me in the eye and listens!!!! HORRID. You are so right I am suffering just thinking about it!! /s
and then if the relationship progresses they eventually wonder why the person is so different than when they were dating.
Then maybe they need to continue the ritual of dating when they cement their long term relationship and or get some serious insight into human behavior. It is pretty easy when spending time on a the first few dates to see the person. I have fantastic insight, but maybe non daters are not as bright and need the animal in their 'daily setting' to analyze and gather data.
Watch them burp and decided if they are a slob. Hell we all burp at least once in private. That is a given so why do we have to watch it from the get go. If little babies came out with out the cuteness would we take them home and put up literally with their sh-t? Hell no. Many would not. It is the cuteness factor that helps compel action forward at times.
We are all different. I like an exciting man that can surf it all baby. If he can't dress in a suit and have it going on with some nice shoes on occasion he would be best with another. Culture and intelligence is critical as is passion and adventure. Of course I always end up with men that have all of that and love TV--but if you're a woman who has dated more than once you know men most often like their television and that the mutual shopping activities will dispense once the relationship is solidified. God blessed me with the finest of the other. ;-)