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The Left Squashes Life's Little Pleasures
Townhall.com ^ | April 13, 2010 | Dennis Prager

Posted on 04/13/2010 4:28:41 AM PDT by Kaslin

Reading the onslaught of angry denunciations of Burger King by mental health organizations and mainstream media reporters this past week reminded me of a characteristic of the Left not often commented on: a certain joylessness, even an antipathy to the little joys that contribute more than almost anything else to most people's ability to endure the difficulties of life.

These characteristics further reinforce the view that Leftism functions as a (secular) religion. Like medieval Christians who wore hair shirts and Puritans who thought dancing was sacrilegious, the Left, consciously or not, is uncomfortable with many of the joys -- with notable exceptions such as sex and drugs -- that people experience.

Needless to say, the Left always has noble explanations -- usually, the protection of people's emotions and health -- for opposing and even banning many joys of life. But the end result is fewer of these little joys that mean a great deal to people.

Burger King's ad was innocuous and innocent. It featured the company's royal mascot running through a building, knocking a person over and crashing through a glass window to deliver the new Burger King Steakhouse XT burger. Called "crazy" by those present, he was finally tackled by men in white coats. "The king's insane," the ad noted, for "offering so much beef for $3.99."

This has triggered a storm of criticism from activists (a term which, unless otherwise specified, means liberal or left).

Michael Fitzpatrick, executive director of the National Alliance on Mental Illness, called the ad "blatantly offensive ... I was stunned. Absolutely stunned and appalled," he said. David Shern, president and chief executive of Mental Health America in Alexandria, Va., echoed this assessment. And reporters from the Associated Press to the Washington Post all agreed.

If this were isolated, it would be worth mentioning only in the context of wondering why people who run mental health -- and most other activist -- organizations seem to have little common sense. They should listen to William Gardner of Los Angeles, who wrote to me:

"I am a father of a 24 year old son with mental health issue. I am particularly tuned to protecting my son's self-image. My son and I have both seen the Burger King Ad that you have referred to. It did not occur to either of us that the Burger King Ad was offensive in any way. Why would I raise my son to be hyper-sensitive about his disability? My objective as a parent is to strengthen him. Making him hyper-sensitive would have the opposite effect."

But the Left has problems with much else as well: smoking (including cigars and pipes); virtually all kids games that can make a kid feel at all bad or get hurt; wood-burning fireplaces; cars; most jokes or any flirting in the workplace; incandescent light bulbs; cool homes in summer; and more.

Smoking

One of life's great little pleasures is tobacco. Just watch old war reportage to see the serenity and joy a cigarette brought to a wounded soldier. Though I do not smoke cigarettes, I have been smoking cigars and pipes since I was in college (my father still smokes cigars daily at age 91), and it would be difficult to overstate how much I enjoy both.

No one opposes educating the public about the dangers of cigarette smoking. Cigarette smoking shortens the lives of up to a third of smokers, often in terrible ways, and that is what public health organizations should be saying. But the battle against smoking and tobacco has become a religious crusade for anti-smoking zealots, who are almost invariably on the Left. If the Left hated Hugo Chavez or Fidel Castro as much as it hates "Big Tobacco," the world would be a better place.

But because the Left hates the fact that people smoke (tobacco, not marijuana, which the Left defends) it uses totalitarian (I use that term with no exaggeration) tactics to eliminate it. Just as the Soviets removed Trotsky from old photos, anti-smoking zealots have forced the removal of cigarettes from old photos -- from photos of FDR, from the famous Beatles photo -- and from movies whenever possible. Torture and murder are ubiquitous in films, but smoking is all but banned -- even cigars are now banned from James Bond films.

Smoking has been banned in entire cities, outdoors as well as in. In Pasadena, Calif., one cannot even smoke in a cigar store. That the Left has contempt for Prohibition reveals a lack of self-awareness that is quite remarkable.

Kids Games such as Tag, Dodgeball, Soccer, Touch Football, Monkey Bars

Virtually every game I played as a child during school recess is now banned because organizations such as the National Program for Playground Safety deem games in which kids are "running into each other" as too dangerous. Someone might get hurt.

Until a few years ago, just about every American boy, and many girls, played dodgeball. No more. This joy, too, has been eliminated from American life. "We consider it inappropriate to use children as human targets," said Mary Marks, physical education supervisor for Fairfax County, Va. And it may hurt the feelings of kids who are eliminated. For the same reason -- potential hurt feelings of those eliminated -- musical chairs is no longer played in some schools.

Some might argue that these bans are not because of Leftism but because of fear of lawsuits. But in light of how leftwing the trial bar is, that only reinforces my argument.

Pinups

For men working in, let us say, a car repair shop, there is not much by way of excitement or visual beauty. So the typical repair shop or factory had its pinup calendar -- a calendar featuring a photo of a beautiful woman in a sexy pose, usually clad in no more than a bikini, sometimes less. The Left, in another totalitarian move, has banned pinups. The reasons: Sexism and possible Hostile Environment. How can a woman possibly work or bring her car into a repair shop where there is a picture of a scantily clad woman? The same people who clamor for a woman's right to walk in public with no top on (because men are allowed to) have banned photos of women with no top on.

Flirting at Work

A joy in life since the advent of men and women has been men flirting with or "chatting up" women. No more. Virtually anything related to a male reaction to a fellow employee who is female can be grounds for his losing his job and worse. What began as a campaign against bosses trading professional advances for sexual favors has degenerated into the elimination of essentially all the fun -- and, yes, potential emotional hurt -- of man-woman dialogue. At work, a man never knows what comment to what woman will trigger his being sent, a la Communist regimes, to a "re-education" program, being fined, having charges leveled against him, being humiliated, having a permanent mark on his employment record, and, of course, losing his job.

There is no question that some men went too far in their sexually charged comments to women. But as a rule, we have wildly overreacted. Women are not wimps. But the Left has inculcated a sense of victimhood into large numbers of women and thereby rendered them weak -- just as it has, in ways too numerous to mention, emasculated men. I deplore crude comments. But in the America I grew up, it was legal to speak crudely, and either decent men would shut the crude man up or women would give the man a well-earned smack across the face.

Today, any hint at the sexual tension that naturally and joyfully exists between the two sexes has been banned. In the attempt to eliminate all pain caused by potentially inappropriate comments, the Left has done what it tries to do about all pain -- ban actions that may lead to it. As a result, gone are the joys of the man-woman repartee in the workplace.

Cars

For most Americans, the car is not only a source of much pleasure, it is also rightly identified with individual liberty. But here, too, to the extent the Left is able to, it will tell you what kind of car you can drive and, if possible, get you out of your car and into mass transit.

The Home

To the Left, your home is not your castle; it is another place of too many joys that the Left would like to ban.

One joy I particularly identify with is the wood-burning fireplace. In California, activists on the Left, aka environmentalists, have banned them from being built in all new homes. Too many harmful emissions. Meanwhile, at the other end of the temperature spectrum, activists wish to determine how low you can set your air conditioner, lest you use more energy than the Left believes you should.

Do you like your present light bulbs? The Left has banned them in favor of CFLs that contain mercury. These new bulbs give a fair number of people headaches, emit less pleasant light, are initially much more expensive and, if broken, necessitate opening windows even in winter, and people and pets must leave the area. The EPA has issued a 16-point procedure to follow if a CFL bulbs breaks.

Indeed, if the Left had its way, the house would eventually become an anachronism as everyone gradually moves into space-saving, less polluting, less energy-wasting apartments.

Every poll has concluded that liberals are less happy than conservatives. There are many reasons for this, and given the importance of little joys to happiness, the Left's religious-like opposition to many of them is surely one of those reasons. The problem for the rest of us, however, is that, like most unhappy people, many folks on the Left don't like seeing anyone happier than they are.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: gagdadbob; liberalism; lping; nannystate; onecosmos; prager; pufflist; socialism
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To: bert
Actually, William Gardner defended the Burger King commercial and said he didn't want his son to be hyper-sensitive about having mental illness.
21 posted on 04/13/2010 5:13:18 AM PDT by Spudx7
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To: bert
Gee, it's a good thing Gardner didn't live in the New York metro area a while back.

"Crazy Eddie, his prices are IN-SA-A-A-A-A-ANE!"

22 posted on 04/13/2010 5:26:22 AM PDT by The_Reader_David (And when they behead your own people in the wars which are to come, then you will know. . .)
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To: Kaslin
Every poll has concluded that liberals are less happy than conservatives. There are many reasons for this, and given the importance of little joys to happiness, the Left's religious-like opposition to many of them is surely one of those reasons.

This is on a bit of a tangent, but when I visited the Capital building in Sacramento, I couldn't help but notice a huge difference between the governors' portraits. All of the Republican governors' portraits showed happy men with huge smiles across their faces (e.g. Reagan, Deukmajian). The Democrat's portraits were all of scowling, unhappy men (e.g. Brown, Davis).

23 posted on 04/13/2010 6:01:21 AM PDT by exDemMom (Now that I've finally accepted that I'm living a bad hair life, I'm more at peace with the world.)
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To: bert
William Gardner of Los Angeles, who wrote to me: "I am a father of a 24 year old son with mental health issue. I am particularly tuned to protecting my son's self-image. My son and I have both seen the Burger King Ad that you have referred to.It did not occur to either of us that the Burger King Ad was offensive in any way. Why would I raise my son to be hyper-sensitive about his disability? My objective as a parent is to strengthen him. Making him hyper-sensitive would have the opposite effect."
24 posted on 04/13/2010 6:02:17 AM PDT by davius (You can roll manure in powdered sugar but that don't make it a jelly doughnut.)
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To: agere_contra

Exactly.

For some reason, libs have a blind spot that makes it impossible for them to discern the difference between an individual choosing to do something,
and that choice being forced on them by the state with the inherent threat of deadly violence for non-compliance.


25 posted on 04/13/2010 6:05:19 AM PDT by MrB (The difference between a humanist and a Satanist is that the latter knows who he's working for.)
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To: bert

You got that exactly backwards.


26 posted on 04/13/2010 6:10:21 AM PDT by ArrogantBustard (Western Civilization is Aborting, Buggering, and Contracepting itself out of existence.)
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To: Chode

“..if a conservative doesn’t like something they leave it alone, if RATS don’t like something, they don’t want YOU to have it/do it either...” ~ Chode

This is what I sent out to my email lists the other day:

It’s easy to know which political party a person will choose just by seeing how emotionally intelligent - (mature or immature) - they are. Here are just a few of the clues that give them away:

If a conservative doesn’t like guns, he doesn`t buy one.
If a liberal doesn’t like guns, he wants all guns outlawed.

If a conservative is a vegetarian, he doesn`t eat meat.
If a liberal is a vegetarian, he wants all meat products banned for everyone.

If a conservative is homosexual, he quietly leads his life.
If a liberal is homosexual, he demands legislated respect.

If a conservative is down-and-out, he thinks about how to better his situation.
A liberal wonders who is going to take care of him.

If a conservative doesn’t like a talk show host, he switches channels.
Liberals demand that those they don’t like be shut down.

If a conservative is a non-believer, he doesn’t go to church.
A liberal non-believer wants any mention of God and religion
silenced. (Unless it’s a foreign religion, of course!)

If a conservative decides he needs health care, he goes about
shopping for it, or may choose a job that provides it.
A liberal demands that the rest of us pay for his.

If a conservative reads this, he’ll forward it so his friends can have a
good laugh.
A liberal will delete it because he’s “offended”.


27 posted on 04/13/2010 6:13:01 AM PDT by Matchett-PI (Jim Wallis speaks for Christians the same way that Jesse Jackson speaks for all blacks.)
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To: Kaslin

When first you practice envy, in any form, your ultimate destination is known. Unfortunately, envy destroys both the practicer of it and everyone around them. Envy dispises all virture and enjoyment. Ever wonder why our culture has become remorsefully unfunny? We no longer have a sense of humor for fear of being condemned by our “anointed betters”. America was once a fun and interesting place to live. It has become a summer camp for retards.


28 posted on 04/13/2010 6:22:25 AM PDT by equalitybeforethelaw
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To: All

” [..] Now, could we make a gratuitous comment about how this is analogous to what the leftist — I mean the true believer, not merely the clueless Democrat — does with the terror of his God-given political freedom?

For what is the Nanny State but a gargantuan two-dimensional plane that we should all cling to in order to protect us from the infinite Sphere of Life?

And what are all of the thousands of useless laws and agencies they put in place, but a kind of collective OCD, in which we always end up back where we started? In other words, trillions of wasted dollars later, we have the same poverty, the same violence, the same stupidity.

The same Mankind, frankly, only worse for the systematic neglect of man’s true nature.

And the leftist does not wish to be cured, any more than the above patient did. For to be cured is to realize that one’s life has been wasted in meaningless rituals.

And that’s a depressing thought.” ~ Robert W. Godwin, Ph.D, Clinical Psychologist (aka “Gagdad Bob”) bttt

Complete commentary here: http://onecosmos.blogspot.com/2010/04/obsessive-compulsive-temporo-political.html


29 posted on 04/13/2010 6:43:29 AM PDT by Matchett-PI (Jim Wallis speaks for Christians the same way that Jesse Jackson speaks for all blacks.)
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To: Kaslin

These are the same people who teach that a man putting his sexual organ into another man’s defecatory orifice is merely a lifestyle choice.


30 posted on 04/13/2010 6:53:15 AM PDT by Inwoodian
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To: equalitybeforethelaw
"When first you practice envy, in any form, your ultimate destination is known. Unfortunately, envy destroys both the practicer of it and everyone around them. Envy dispises all virture and enjoyment. Ever wonder why our culture has become remorsefully unfunny? We no longer have a sense of humor for fear of being condemned by our “anointed betters”. America was once a fun and interesting place to live. It has become a summer camp for retards."

You got it! Here are some links I think you'd find noteworthy if and when you have time to check them out.:)

Excerpt: "One of the most important but little known concepts in psychoanalysis is that of envy. It is a term of art, not to be confused with the dictionary definition. ..... In order to advance into capitalism, human beings had to get past the “envy barrier” and tolerate the idea that some people will have more than others.

In primitive groups, envy is so pervasive that no one is allowed to have more than anyone else--they are trapped in a "zero sum" theory of economics, just as are many liberals today.

"To naive leftists, a primitive culture may look like an egalitarian paradise, but it is actually a paranoid and envious hell, with everyone fearful of the “evil eye” of his envious neighbor should he acquire more than him. For this reason, primitive groups mindlessly destroy surpluses or engage in sacrifices to their “envious” gods. ...

"If we could somehow eliminate envy from the human genome, there would be almost no reason for the left to exist. They would instantly lose that which animates them, for example, envy masquerading as justice or economic theory.

In order to be happy, we must all keep our envy in check, because envy is the opposite of gratitude. Envy does not appreciate what one has, only what one doesn’t have. And our capacity to imagine what we do not have--and that someone else is enjoying it--is literally infinite, as is envy. .." Complete commentary HERE

"...the indulgence of envy actually destroys the gratitude that is central to human happiness. ..." HERE: The Eighth Commandment of Nihilism: What's Yours is Mine

Happiness Is a Moral Obligation - Prager

A Message to Redistributionists

The Original Sin of Progressives [Leftists]

31 posted on 04/13/2010 7:23:47 AM PDT by Matchett-PI (Jim Wallis speaks for Christians the same way that Jesse Jackson speaks for all blacks.)
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To: Kaslin
...because the Left hates the fact that people smoke (tobacco, not marijuana, which the Left defends) it uses totalitarian (I use that term with no exaggeration) tactics to eliminate it.

I always thought it ironic when people claim police waste too much time busting kids smoking pot,(when they could be catching "real" criminals,they argue),but have no problem when the police spend the time to send 17 year olds into the corner store to see if they can fool the cashier into selling them cigarettes.

32 posted on 04/13/2010 7:53:32 AM PDT by massmike (...So this is what happens when OJ's jury elects the president....)
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To: Matchett-PI

BUMP!


33 posted on 04/13/2010 7:56:57 AM PDT by painter (No wonder democrats don't mind taxes.THEY DON'T PAY THEM !)
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To: Kaslin
The Left Squashes Life's Little Pleasures - or - how to suck the life, joy and productivity out of everything around you.
34 posted on 04/13/2010 8:30:22 AM PDT by Liberty Valance (Keep a simple manner for a happy life :o)
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To: Kaslin

35 posted on 04/13/2010 8:32:40 AM PDT by RichInOC (No! BAD Rich! (What'd I say?))
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To: Inwoodian
"...merely a lifestyle choice" ~ Inwoodian

It was the "norm" until.... well, here, let's let Dennis Prager explain it.

36 posted on 04/13/2010 8:39:55 AM PDT by Matchett-PI (Jim Wallis speaks for Christians the same way that Jesse Jackson speaks for all blacks.)
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To: relictele

You just described it perfectly.


37 posted on 04/13/2010 9:21:03 AM PDT by darkangel82 (I don't have a superiority complex, I'm just better than you.)
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To: Kaslin
I'm about halfway through Jonah Goldberg's "Liberal Fascism." It's hard to describe the feeling I get in the pit of my stomach when I recognize the behaviors of the earlier fascist dictators being displayed in the current resident. If you haven't read this book, you need to. Soon.

Right now, Golberg is describing the need for war in order to give substance to fascisitic tyranny, and exposes the AGW lie, the dietary fat/heart disease lie, earth-worship, etc., all as suitable substitutes for actual war in order to support the governmental controls on every minute aspect of American life. It gives me a sick feeling to realize that we have had fascism in place for the last hundred years.

38 posted on 04/13/2010 9:46:40 AM PDT by redhead ("If you can't make them see the light, make them feel the heat." --Ronald W. Reagan)
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To: Kaslin
[Article] Women are not wimps. But the Left has inculcated a sense of victimhood into large numbers of women and thereby rendered them weak -- just as it has, in ways too numerous to mention, emasculated men.

Over time, Michael Savage's assertion that liberalism is an actual mental disorder begins to explain more and more .... not that I liked his statement when I first heard it, but because what he said appears to have explanatory power, I have to deal with it more seriously than I did at first.

39 posted on 04/13/2010 10:26:45 AM PDT by lentulusgracchus
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To: Matchett-PI
"If we could somehow eliminate envy from the human genome, there would be almost no reason for the left to exist."

The Left needs their own country. Unfortunately, they want ours, and it seems they're willing to redefine our reality as insanity (a la Julianne Malveaux, q.v.) and institutionalize us, in order to get their way -- when as Michael Savage says, it's probably they who could benefit more from psychiatric intervention.

40 posted on 04/13/2010 10:31:42 AM PDT by lentulusgracchus
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