I was friends with a lesbian who was married to an ex-gay, and she had only had sexual experiences with him, but she knew that she was a lesbian.
True story.
I believe it. I used to watch Oprah (lol) and she regularly had guests with similar stories. Being married or having sex with the opposite sex doesn’t mean yer straight. And being a man or woman doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a man or woman, either.
So, depending on what preferential benefits are given to GLBTs for their “minority” status I can easily see hetro couples declaring they’re gay or bi or not really a man or woman at all. And nobody can prove otherwise.
I always thought I was a cowboy, but I just found out I’m a lesbian.