The most important word in the English language is “no.”
No, don’t put you hand on the hot stove.
No, don’t go to Mexico.
My sister lives near Calexico and recently asked that we come down for a visit. I told her absolutely no way was I going anywhere near the sh!thole known as Mexico; if she wanted to see us she’d have to come to Northern CA.
“No, don’t go to Mexico.”
I was convinced of that long ago. Problem is there are MANY, including Freepers and government hacks who declare ‘there is NO problem in Mexico’.
So, the Hartleys were stupid. If a death sentence is price for being stupid, 2/3rds of voters would be DEAD.