yep. How come we aren’t in charge again?
One of my research interests is Medieval torture devices. When the MSM was bitching about waterboarding and ‘torture’, I kept saying “they want torture? I can give them some great ides. How come I never get to be in charge?!”, to which Mr R very calmly replied “That IS why you aren’t in charge, dear.”
He has handled marrying into an IRL Addam’s family quite well, I think.
It was probably your pet “Thing” that made him submissive.
I look out for them. Probably why I ain’t married...yet.