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How I helped my mother starve to death: NY Times reporter writes book...
LifeSitenews.com ^ | August 23, 2011 | by Jeremy Kryn

Posted on 08/23/2011 1:55:48 PM PDT by topher

LONDON, UNITED KINGDOM, August 22, 2011 (LifeSiteNews.com) – A recently retired New York Times reporter has penned a book in which she details how she followed through on a shocking pact to help her 88-year-old mother, Estelle, starve to death.

Julia Gross with her mother Estelle. In an excerpt from the book, “A Bittersweet Season,” published recently in the Daily Mail, Jane Gross describes her mother’s increasing dissatisfaction with life as her health deteriorated, and her mounting desire to die, despite the fact that she was not terminally ill.

“So here we were, my mother and I, wishing that she were terminally ill and feeling a bit creepy about it,” Gross writes about her conversations with her mother about her death wish.

Gross admits that there “was no pretending I hadn’t been part of her decision [to die], and had arguably even encouraged it,” but argues that she made sure that her mother, with whom she had never been particularly close, was “doing this for herself,” and not out of a desire to spare her children “trouble and expense.”

Finally, after her mother spelled out the words “N-O-W,” Gross met with staff at the hospice where her mother was being cared for, and thus began the lengthy and grueling process of her mother’s death by starvation and dehydration – a process that staff had told Gross would only last a week, but that actually lasted 13 days.

(Excerpt) Read more at lifesitenews.com ...


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Extended News; News/Current Events; United Kingdom
KEYWORDS: cultureofdeath; euthanasia; janegross; lifehate; medicide; moralabsolutes; murder; prolife; starvation
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To: netmilsmom

I finally watched “Enchanted” all the way through over the weekend. It was cute as could be.


61 posted on 08/23/2011 5:16:09 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("There is only one remedy for ignorance and thoughtlessness, and that is literacy." R. Mitchell)
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To: topher
The Nazis could only DREAM of such a thing!!

Look....my guess is that the mother and daughter were both RABID PRO-ABORTION!!!! This is the natural next act. DISGUSTING!!! Have they NO GOD in their lives?????

62 posted on 08/23/2011 5:28:44 PM PDT by Ann Archy (Abortion is the Human Sacrifice to the god of Convenience.)
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To: topher

And the VILE dughte AACCUSED the staff of sneaking her mother ICE CUBES!!! There will be NO ice cubes in HELL for you unless you repent.


63 posted on 08/23/2011 5:30:47 PM PDT by Ann Archy (Abortion is the Human Sacrifice to the god of Convenience.)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

While I very much liked your post #40, I found therein no answer to the dilemma of what to do when pain control doesn’t work?

“A terminally ill person will die soon enough.” is tragically not always correct.


64 posted on 08/23/2011 5:45:39 PM PDT by GladesGuru (In a society predicated upon freedom, it is necessary to examine principles.)
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To: netmilsmom

Why would you interpret the writer’s mother throwing all her things away as she left for college as the writer hating her mother? It sort of sounds the other way around to me.


65 posted on 08/23/2011 6:01:42 PM PDT by Katherine Ann
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To: Secret Agent Man

I wasn’t advocating for euthanasia AND I’m not a guy.


66 posted on 08/23/2011 6:23:29 PM PDT by brytlea (Wake me when it's over...)
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To: GladesGuru

I personally have a little concern, since I cannot take opiates. However, I’ll cross that bridge if and when I get to it. I would think there would be more research into pain management because I suspect THAT is the issue for most people. They may not want to die, but they don’t want to be in pain.


67 posted on 08/23/2011 6:27:37 PM PDT by brytlea (Wake me when it's over...)
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To: Katherine Ann

Let’s look at the way she described her mother’s actions...

>>The day I left for university, with my father driving me, we had not completely backed out of the driveway before she had filled the rubbish bins outside the house with my old school uniforms, boxes of the poems I had written, and other cherished possessions — now just clutter to be cleared away.<<

The picture she paints is of her mother feverishly hauling her “cherished possessions” to the trash without raising an eye to wave goodbye to her. Do you really think that if she truly loved her mom, she would describe it that way?

Maybe you don’t know too many of the lib-boomer women who, no matter what a mother did, found constant fault with her. I’ve got a sister like this. My mom wasn’t perfect (none of us are) and she was far from a touchie-feelie huggie mom. However, if you listen to my sister describe my mom and the stories of her childhood, you would think that she lived in a different house from the rest of us with another mom.

I see drama queen. I see resentment for her mother. I see a woman that was just as happy to give mom the boot because she felt mom booted her too. She hated her mother. Read the article. There is not a bit of love in the description of the lady she dehydrated to death.


68 posted on 08/23/2011 6:38:36 PM PDT by netmilsmom (Happiness is a choice)
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To: Tax-chick

I knew you’d like it!


69 posted on 08/23/2011 6:41:25 PM PDT by netmilsmom (Happiness is a choice)
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To: netmilsmom

I loved the climax, even with Tom, Leader of the Nerd Pack, diagnosing the structural flaws in the dragon.


70 posted on 08/23/2011 6:50:01 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("There is only one remedy for ignorance and thoughtlessness, and that is literacy." R. Mitchell)
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To: Tax-chick

LOL!


71 posted on 08/23/2011 6:51:27 PM PDT by netmilsmom (Happiness is a choice)
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To: netmilsmom

Watching movies around here is an Adventure in Learning. Want to know about the wing-surface to body-mass ratio? I didn’t. “It’s computer-generated, you nuisance!”


72 posted on 08/23/2011 6:53:38 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("There is only one remedy for ignorance and thoughtlessness, and that is literacy." R. Mitchell)
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To: topher

She’ll be on the Daily Kos Wall of Fame soon.

Notice how fans of suicide always direct it at others rather than at themselves?


73 posted on 08/23/2011 7:03:17 PM PDT by DPMD (~)
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To: Tax-chick

It’s like better than “Teaching With Movies”!


74 posted on 08/23/2011 7:04:28 PM PDT by netmilsmom (Happiness is a choice)
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To: netmilsmom

Oh, yes. When you get my family and its bizarre enthusiasms together, every movie is a multidisciplinary course, and a penance, too ;-).


75 posted on 08/23/2011 7:08:35 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("There is only one remedy for ignorance and thoughtlessness, and that is literacy." R. Mitchell)
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To: kcvl

The woman who helped her mother die sounds like she may not understand the aging process and how that can affect the emotional and mental condition of the elderly. She should have seen to it that her mother had gotten help from her private physician immediately if she was talking of suicide. She shouldn’t have to have given it a second thought.

If your loved one is talking of suicide, you do everything to stop them.


76 posted on 08/23/2011 7:23:53 PM PDT by Pan_Yans Wife (Utopia is being foisted on Americans for their own good.-- J. Robert Smith)
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To: Ann Archy
Reading your response about ice cubes and hell reminds me of how Jesus told the story of the Rich Man and Lazarus in the gospels...

[See Luke 16:19-31]

Oh, how the children of Fatima were frightened by the images of hell...

It is always wise to let God take a person's life -- as God knows what a person might need at death to enter the kingdom of God...

I am very disturbed to hear the actor Patrick Stewart saying he would like to end his life. He feels he is now useless...

So many misguided people in this day and age...

77 posted on 08/23/2011 7:33:24 PM PDT by topher (Traditional values -- especially family values -- are the values that time has proven them to work)
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To: brytlea

From your post, it appears otherwise. We euthanize pets in terminal cases where quality of life is gone. That’s what you’re saying we ought to do, as that is the ‘care’ we provide pets in order to spare them a lingering painful death. No matter if you qualify it or not, the next part of your statement totally negates your qualification.

And this woman wasn’t even terminal, to try to compare a terminal pet to a non-terminal woman and use that argument to say ‘we ought to provide this for people’ - with a non-terminal case - is comparing apples to oranges.

And my mistake for calling you ‘guy’, it is here nor there in terms of what’s being discussed.


78 posted on 08/23/2011 7:59:39 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (I'd like to tell you, but then I'd have to kill you.)
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To: topher

Patrick could open up an actor’s workshop or teach acting somewhere, I would bet there are a lot of people who’d like to have him help them be better actors.


79 posted on 08/23/2011 8:01:18 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (I'd like to tell you, but then I'd have to kill you.)
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To: trisham

The bundle of joy will be arriving some time next April ... they JUST found out. ;)

I’m making a public prediction... it’ll be a boy. Just my “feeling”. Heck, I thought she already WAS pregnant last week...and I had NO reason to feel that way.

Stay tuned! :)


80 posted on 08/24/2011 1:49:26 AM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (Mr B has a new cousin on the way!)
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