No. I’m not offering excuses for others’ choices.
I’m saying the gubmint REWARDS such behavior.
If some man tells you he “can’t stay zipped up”, best advice is “NEXT!”
I don’t hang with that type. After all, my job isn’t a$$hole-whisperer now, is it?
Oh the men don’t announce they can’t stay zipped up. They sneak around sticking their anatomy where ever there is a hot spot.