Because a 41-year-old man engages in sex with an 18-year-old woman does not mean he is perverted. Foolish, yes. Irresponsible, undoubtedly. Self-centered, of course. Short-sighted, boy howdy!
And if that were my daughter that guy would just wake up one day in the middle of nowhere with bruises over every inch of his body.
You would let him wake up?