Wow! I like that band, and he’s not someone I would have pegged as a woman-to-be. Here’s a vid of them covering a Replacements song:
Shows to go ya, that you can’t tell what crazy and sick and devilish illusions a person may be dragging along.
I come more from the “they’re more to be pitied than censured” school — so long as they don’t push the sickness upon other people and insist others comfortably accommodate it. They should be still urged and offered every help to shuck off these illusions.