That's the difference between men and women. Men examine what the hard options are.
Many women want to deny that hard options exist, and just want to chatter about how bad things are, give each other "empathy", and have faith that if things get bad somebody will save them. They get upset if somebody suggests that maybe the white knight isn't coming.
Something tells me that you once had a really bad marriage.
You are so laughable! Your understanding of women is also laughable. You think all we can do is kiss a boo-boo and life will be better? Did you have a mother who really loved you?
All the way through your life? How about a grandmother? Did she love you as well? If so, with these women in your life, they must have taught you how to BE A MAN! It sounds as if that is a totally alien concept for you.
A “provider” should never be confused with a “nurturer,” neither of which you seem familiar with. Horses sire colts. Mares provide the milk and education, no matter how sparse the grass it.
Stop lumping women into your convenient categories. There is no such thing as a white knight. It is your wishful thinking that wants to put all women in a class lower than yourself. BAH! HUMBUG!