Something tells me that you once had a really bad marriage.
Nope. I have a very good marriage. Been married 30 years, have three kids, my first and only marriage.
I am, however, old enough to have observed people and how they react.
I would add, though, that for thirty years it’s been my job to be the one to face the hard options for us. She’s content to let me do it. That and swatting the spiders, and dealing with the boo-boos (she can’t deal with the sight of blood).