I always figure any communication I do in writing could be shown to ANYONE.
I’m a heavy, but fit guy. I look at this gal, in my eye she needs to get out and walk more, there’s a difference between riding heavy and the heavy riding you.
Now that this guy’s letter is public, it’s out in the arena of public debate, people are discussing personal health issues, and this girl is probably rethinking her life strategy. Bringing the topic up for debate is probably a win win all around.
Gratuitously attacking people for their appearance, is never right, but as a man who has been large his whole life, I know that’s something that will never change. I’m a person who speed walks 5 miles minimum a day, every day, and teach martial arts classes to hyperactive a little kids after it, as well as maintain a small business, pursue the liveaboard life aboard a sailboat, my blood pressure is low, my blood sugar is low, my resting pulse rate is in the forties...that’s good for me. Sometimes I run into a human being who needs to call me a fat ass... and that’s what’s good for them. I know who the weakling is.