I don’t disagree with that. However, I do not agree that it is immoral for two adults to engage in oral stimulation outside of sex, and I doubt we’l ever see eye to eye on that.
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You mean kissing?
We all kiss babies.
But we don't kiss them to cause genital arousal, in them or in ourselves. That's the difference. Sexual arousal is only right with your spouse. But I'm guessing everybody probably knows that.