I never said that it wasn’t sexual, but it is not SEX. Sex is a specific thing. In response to your second post, yes, performing such acts with children is wrong. Performing them with adults is not.
If it is sexual, then it is sex. There is more than one sex act. If doing can bring a person to ejaculation/orgasm, then it is s e x.
You mean its not intercourse?
Why didn’t you just say so?
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