I find it interesting that some primitive cultures allow the children to be raised by the mother for about two or three years, then the boys go to live in the “men’s quarters” and the girls stay with their mothers.
I doubt if they have a problem with homos.
In early American society babies were dressed as girls for about two years, and buying a boy his first “long pants” was a time for celebration. The boys were then taught what it meant to be a man.
In a good many of these cultures the men teach the how to be men by using them as sex objects, as with the Spartans and various Melanesian tribes. The boys don't necessarily grow up to be homos by our historically odd definition, but I don't think it's a lifestyle we should be recommending. :)