...and the sole marital value you want to conserve is that the right to sodomy be secured with with the Nihil Obstat of the state?
What did such desperate married couples do before Lawrence? Oh, the humanity! Forced into a life of crime! We can only hope they got a little extra frisson of excitement by being transgressive!
I'd be receptive to your ideas of how to prevent the destruction of the liberty and dignity of Americans in the specific, serious instances described in my previous post.