If I had a homosexual son he could either not bring up the subject or he could hit the road.
Do not bring his boyfriends around me and do not even bring up the subject.
I do have a homosexual nephew and it sickens me to be around him.
I’m sure you’ll be cursed out by a few folks on FR for your comments on what you’d do if you had a gay son... tolerance, he’s family etc.
I agree on your thought process only slightly different I’d disown him and he’d be on the road not around me. It’s a self chosen lifestyle and I wouldn’t tolerate it from anybody, family or not. Making exceptions for family is compromising your beliefs, ethics and morals and we’re in this mess because folks make exceptions to a lot of different things when it suits them.
There are some things that a decent,moral individual cannot...*must* not...tolerate in others.Even in a parent,spouse,sibling or child.Just to give one example,I wouldn't expect *anyone* in my family (including my kids) to be anything but utterly *disgusted* if I were to begin torturing and murdering young kids.I'd fully expect to be totally rejected in such a situation.While routinely engaging in perverted homosexual acts (and lifestyle) may not be quite as despicable as the torture and murder of children it's more than disgusting enough to qualify for rejection.A biological inclination to be attracted to one of the same gender may be inborn...I don't know.I'm not a scientist,a physician,a geneticist,etc.But engaging in the *act* is *completely* within the control of the individual in question...just as is engaging in the act of killing a child.
One of the reasons that homosexuality is now so popular is that many do have homosexual relatives or have “friends” of that “orientation” and begin to see them as “normal.” Dick Cheney comes to mind, as people do not want to be called “bigoted” or “narrow-mindend” though the forgotten Scripture says the opposite.
I have 3 boys, 15, 13, 10 and a daughter 5. I pray that they are not gay. We of course are doing everything in our power to raise them right. I agree with you that if they somehow turn out that way, they better never highlight that fact. I won’t go so far as to not allow them to ever walk in my house ever again, but they will NOT grandstand their sin. Hopefully we will NEVER have to cross that bridge and I hope you never have to either. Hopefully your nephew treats you with high respect and keeps his sins to himself. I know you say that it make you sick to be around him and I understand that perfectly. Again hopefully he shows you respect especially in your home.
Gay or not, if you are old enough to have sex you are old enough to move out of my house