SOL, that more of what i was trying to say the other day...
one can be alcoholic and choose not to drink, and avoid the problem of alcoholic life...
the queer sex lifestyle is a choice, whether or not we allow the 'born that way' argument to obfuscate the discussion...
just as the promiscuous hetero lifestyle is a sinful choice...too bad most of our culture applauds extra-marital sex and its become 'normal' from our moral standards, not Gods...