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For N.F.L. Prospect Michael Sam, Upbringing Was Bigger Challenge Than Coming Out as Gay
New York Times ^ | FEB. 11, 2014 | JOE DRAPE, STEVE EDER and BILLY WITZ

Posted on 02/11/2014 12:51:23 PM PST by Second Amendment First

COLUMBIA, Mo. — Michael Sam was the loud country boy who wore a tank top and a cowboy hat. He was the smooth-singing baritone who could irritate his coaches and crack up his teammates with his improvised songs.

He was one of the best players to come out of tiny Hitchcock, Tex., where his family was well known for all the wrong reasons. He was an all-American and defensive terror on the football field. He was a regular at the gay club where the bartenders knew him by name.

Sam introduced himself to the world Sunday night as an N.F.L. prospect who just happens to be gay. Now, he is poised to become a trailblazer in a violent and macho world that will scrutinize his every action and turn his private life into a very public debate. Related Coverage

But Sam has never had it easy. He grew up about 40 miles southeast of Houston near Galveston Bay in Texas, the seventh of eight children. Three of his siblings have died and two brothers are in prison. He lived briefly in the back seat of his mother’s car, and his relationship with his family remains complicated: when he visits home, he usually stays with friends.

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But to get a sense of the challenges awaiting Sam, look no further than his father.

Last Tuesday, Michael Sam Sr. was at a Denny’s near his home outside Dallas to celebrate his birthday when his son sent him a text message.

Dad, I’m gay, he wrote.

The party stopped cold. “I couldn’t eat no more, so I went to Applebee’s to have drinks,” Sam Sr. said. “I don’t want my grandkids raised in that kind of environment.

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To: dfwgator

perfect!


41 posted on 02/11/2014 1:20:20 PM PST by RatRipper (The political left are utterly evil and corrupt)
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To: longtermmemmory

“Some idiot from NYC or SF will “advise” this would be a ratings move without realizing the vast majority would find it repulsive and be a death sentence for a team.”

It will not only be a death sentence to the team who drafts him as the vast majority of season ticket holders return their tickets in protest, but it will be the death nail of the entire NFL as each team that Sam’s team plays will have dozens of players who will refuse to suit up for that game and millions of fans across the nation will refuse to watch any game Sam plays in.


42 posted on 02/11/2014 1:23:16 PM PST by Oliviaforever
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To: Ronald_Magnus

time to remove their tax protected status.


43 posted on 02/11/2014 1:23:30 PM PST by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: Second Amendment First

We’re to trust the judgment of a person who announces publicly that he plays with poop?


44 posted on 02/11/2014 1:28:16 PM PST by Ingtar (The NSA - "We're the only part of government who actually listens to the people.")
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To: longtermmemmory

The homo is a “lose” proposition. If you put him on your team, you’ll never be able to get rid of him without involving lots of lawyer time. Obviously, he already has an attitude problem, coming-out like and when he did. FAIL.


45 posted on 02/11/2014 1:28:17 PM PST by hal ogen (First Amendment or Reeducation Camp?)
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To: raybbr

the NYT is puffing him up to this end.

This must be part of the the protect hitlary effort for 2016.


46 posted on 02/11/2014 1:32:12 PM PST by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: Oliviaforever
It will not only be a death sentence to the team who drafts him as the vast majority of season ticket holders return their tickets in protest, but it will be the death nail of the entire NFL as each team that Sam’s team plays will have dozens of players who will refuse to suit up for that game and millions of fans across the nation will refuse to watch any game Sam plays in.

Do you really believe any of that will happen? I will lay a bet that the number of season tickets turned in by the team that drafts him will be less than 1,000, and ratings will drop by less than 1% if at all.

Not saying it would be a good idea to draft him, but most people just don't care. The big problem for the team who drafts him is they are getting an undersized, old (24 year old) defensive lineman who is probably too slow to play LB in a 3-4 defense. And when they finally decide he isn't working out, they can't cut him because of the outcry that will come from the left. Kind of like the outcry that came from the right when a poor passing QB can't find a spot in the league.

47 posted on 02/11/2014 1:32:20 PM PST by sharkhawk (Mr Gorbachev, tear down this wall.)
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To: Second Amendment First

I remember an interview with NFL great Bubba Smith. He was asked if there were gays in the NFL. He said “sure there were.” Asked how he knew they were gay, he said “they were the ones with a hard-on in the shower!”


48 posted on 02/11/2014 1:32:40 PM PST by Sans-Culotte ( Pray for Obama- Psalm 109:8)
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To: raybbr

His performance in the Senior Bowl and practices had dropped him from 2nd -3rd round to 4th - 6th round. This smacks of desperation to either move up in the draft or get paid reparations.


49 posted on 02/11/2014 1:33:30 PM PST by Ingtar (The NSA - "We're the only part of government who actually listens to the people.")
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To: F15Eagle

or his father found out and threw him out.


50 posted on 02/11/2014 1:35:03 PM PST by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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To: Yaelle

“As evidence, he pointed out that he had taken an older son to Mexico to lose his virginity.”

This. I’m not sure what to do with this.


51 posted on 02/11/2014 1:35:51 PM PST by FAA
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To: Yaelle
Yeah, why that dad is a paragon of virtue! Gets a hooker for his son! A Mexican hooker, lucky his son didn’t get aids.

"They all call her 'puta', cause no one really knows her name....."

53 posted on 02/11/2014 1:37:09 PM PST by dfwgator
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To: sharkhawk

“Do you really believe any of that will happen? I will lay a bet that the number of season tickets turned in by the team that drafts him will be less than 1,000, and ratings will drop by less than 1% if at all.”

Is it really your opinion that only 1% of NFL fans will object to an open homosexual playing in the league?

Do you really think that only 1000 tickets will be retuned and that all the rest of the people will be fine with this gay playing on their favorite team?


54 posted on 02/11/2014 1:39:31 PM PST by Oliviaforever
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To: forgotten man
He is a Louisiana fruit who didn’t make it all the way to California.

the fruits in California all came here from Texas, Oklahoma, Minnesota and everywhere else.

55 posted on 02/11/2014 1:39:55 PM PST by atc23 (The Confederacy was the single greatest conservative resistance to federal authority ever.)
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To: Second Amendment First

And what if there is one big collective “who cares?” I know. Non stop reporting that he is the first openly gay NFL player. Obamamerica, all gay all the time.


56 posted on 02/11/2014 1:41:16 PM PST by Organic Panic
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To: Second Amendment First

Much like the gay black males at the school in which I teach, his mother probably sold him to men.


57 posted on 02/11/2014 1:44:13 PM PST by goodwithagun (My gun has killed fewer people than Ted Kennedy's car.)
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To: Craftmore

ROFL that what I mean LOL!


58 posted on 02/11/2014 1:45:02 PM PST by SevenofNine (We are Freepers, all your media bases belong to us ,resistance is futile)
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To: SevenofNine

Too bad there’s no more Houston Oilers. He’ll have to settle for the GB Packers, or maybe the St. Louis Rams. He will, however, enjoy his visits to see the NY Giants.


59 posted on 02/11/2014 1:45:25 PM PST by Defiant (Let the Tea Party win, and we will declare peace on the American people and go home.)
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To: Second Amendment First

I got to thinking that if he goes undrafted, Goodell might be pressured to implement something akin to the “Rooney Rule”. A “Sam Rule” if you will. Every team will be forced to at least work out an openly gay prospect. I know, it’s crazy, but we live in crazy times.


60 posted on 02/11/2014 1:45:45 PM PST by Ronald_Magnus
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