Posted on 02/13/2014 5:53:44 AM PST by SeekAndFind
Hell with that. Stay single guys and always use a condom so when she "accidentally" forgets to take her pills, she won't get pregnant and make the government force you to support the kid she told you she didn't plan on having.
Or how about- joining a Christ centered church or a synagogue and meeting some good Christian or observant Jewish women, who want to make a life together and love a family? Let God work in your life, you'll be happier!
Two Girls for Every Boy
Watch out for guys who are willing to have a lot of casual sex and think it's fun and call those same girls sluts and harpies. They're depressed losers who will have to import their wives from Russia or the Ukraine and hide their green cards. Read their FR posts and weed out the fun/slut/harpy ones.
The Great Gonorrhea Festival?
Just because you find a woman in a church, doesn't mean she is a Christian, any more than finding a fox in a hen-house means you have a furry egg-layer.
She could be there just because that's where you go to find somebody who might marry you and support your spawn from your wilder days.
That being your position, why bother with condoms? They are, after all, not totally conducive to the act, cutting down on the pleasure. Why not do the logical thing and get a vasectomy? If she takes you to court for paternity, show the judge the doctor's bill, its date and proof that you are sterile.
That could be. Maybe by nature, we are not monogomous.
Just a guess, but probably most women want a long term relationship. It is in their nature. It is programmed. Has to do with the benefits of a relable mate when raising children.
Males on the otherhand, have different goals. Procreation with a lot of females means more offspring.
So, men have to be taught to be monogomous. To overcome their nature. This is done by society, law, the parents and extended family, and most importantly the women themselves.
The free sex and feminist movement has taught men that they can get what they want without any commitment. For women, there is little or no risk of getting pregnant so they are less inhibited. However, women still retain that desire for commitment.
Anyway, it seems like a cold, cruel, and sad life to never have a long term relationship. Worse for the children if there are any.
I went to a “Tech” school when there were four men for every woman. Good: male attention. Bad: too much male attention. Good: I like nerdy types. Bad: There is such a thing as way too nerdy. Good: I met Mr. Heartwood first week my freshman year and married him at the end of my sophomore year; we’re coming up on 32 years this spring.
But I do know that it was very hard on the men there, that most of them were willing to dance to whatever tune the women played, and that the women didn’t have to try very hard to please men (visitors tended to judge the women unattractive, because they didn’t have to try.)
At least time was on the men’s side; they graduated, matured, earned money and status.
Where the situation is reversed, and the numbers don’t favor women, time is not on their side.
The solution is tough, kick-ass betas, and harsh consequences for adultery and fornication, which are unfortunately harsh on the innocent children.
This country wasn't founded by nothing but alphas. It was founded by men who weren't on top in old England. It didn't go from 1620 through WWII by the efforts of alphas alone. It was tough betas and their tough women, and my belief is that a society that rewards betas is going to out-compete a polygynous one.
Two Girls for Every Boy...
AKA -”Sluts d’ boxcars”
In Texas, you are correct. I know.
No wonder. You took the “red pill”.
Watch out for guys who are willing to have a lot of casual sex and think it’s fun and call those same girls sluts and harpies. They’re depressed losers who will have to import their wives from Russia or the Ukraine and hide their green cards. Read their FR posts and weed out the fun/slut/harpy ones.
Your mail order bride fantasy is about 20 years out of date. With the internet and cheap international travel, the world is pretty much the same these days for the young and mobile. You really should open your eyes a bit and see it instead of being so bitter.
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