The Supreme Court of the United States has declared that a man masturbating inside another man’s $4!7hole is a marital act, so the debate has been settled.
not QUITE there yet, but inching that way (because barring it would be “mere animus”).
and so the US gets very very weird.
personally... I think the US is too weak in its current state to stop this. it needs to get right with the Lord in a lot of other ways before it has power to shrug this plague off. some folks disagree, and maybe the homo lobby will make such a pest of itself that it will engender a crude counter reaction. but to call that getting closer to the Lord would be a delusion.