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Townhall.com ^ | May 7, 2014 | Mike Adams

Posted on 05/07/2014 8:19:16 AM PDT by Kaslin

Controversy has once again hit the campus of UNC-Wilmington. This time it's not my fault. The controversy is actually the fault of a student. His crime is simple: He decided to behave like a feminist behaves every day on campuses all across America. Unfortunately for him, he chose to do so without the proper genitalia and without the approval of the UNCW Women's Resource Center.

I was introduced to the controversy shortly after a student of mine finished taking her final exam of the semester. After she had left my 2 pm exam, she came into my 3:30 class and, as discreetly as possible, told me that a male student had just walked up to her and asked if she wanted to have sex with him. It took me a few minutes to figure out that she wasn't joking. So I asked her to give me more information as we walked out into the hall to look for the offending student.

Apparently, the young man had been working his way through the building asking every female student he saw if she would like to have sex with him. Some just walked away, but some wanted an explanation for the wildly inappropriate request. When pressed, he simply told them he hadn't had sex all semester and didn't want to go home for the summer until he had. One woman reacted a little more strongly to his indecent proposal. She started to cry and went upstairs looking for help from someone in the psychology department. That's when things got interesting.

Fortunately, the visibly shaken student found a concerned psychology professor who went downstairs with her, found the male student, and told him to knock it off. The propositioning student became incensed and told the professor he needed to get over his hang-ups about sex. The student's argument was pretty simple: Asking someone to have sex is no different than asking them to engage in any other recreational activity such as playing basketball.

Of course, that argument was rejected and the UNCW police were called in to apprehend the student. Fortunately, the psychology building is in walking distance from Dunkin' Donuts so the police made the trek in less than an hour. Upon arrival, they scoured the building in search of their suspect.

But what crime did the desperately horny student commit? Did he sexually harass these women in a traditional sense? No, this was a case of creating a hostile environment in the workplace. Had he done this in a bar, rather than on campus, there would be no controversy. In other words, the venue made a difference.

Of course, there is another important variable to consider. If he were a female student, his conduct would have been seen in a very different light. In order to assess the possible role that gender played in the incident, please consider the following:

-Every year when they put on The Vagina Monologues, UNCW feminists send out an email that begins with the line "Greetings vagina lovers." And they use the university email system to send this to everyone. Feminists at another UNC Women's Center advertised The Vagina Monologues by purchasing a six foot vagina costume. They later took turns walking around campus dressed as a giant sex organ.

-Feminists at the UNCW Women's Center once advertised The Vagina Monologues with a large sign saying "p***ies unite." It was posted outside a campus diner where faculty and staff often took their children to eat. Note that those responsible for making the profane sign were professors, not students.

-Feminists at the UNCW Women's Center sold "p***y pops" made out of candy and shaped to resemble female genitalia. Some feminist professors walked around the lobby of Kenan Auditorium licking the candy-coated genitals in front of students.

-Feminists at the UNCW Women's Center have set up tables showing people how to put condoms on cucumbers. But this isn't nearly as bad as the feminist students at UNC-CH who actually built a vibrator museum and erected it (cough) in the middle of campus.

-Feminists at the UNCW Women's Center posted pictures of nude women- some of them under-aged - in the lobby of Randall Library as part of an "art" exhibit.

-Feminists at the UNCW Women's Center sold "I had an abortion" tee shirts on campus so students could let strangers know they had killed their own children and were proud of it.

All of these incidents are a reflection of a consistent philosophy promoted by feminists here at UNCW. That philosophy is made up of two core principles: 1) Women have a right to act as vulgar as they want in public because the rules of ordinary decency and civility don't apply to them. 2) The key to personal fulfillment is to have sex with as many people as possible and to view any restrictions on sexual liberty as forms of patriarchal oppression.

So what was the crime of the male student who was publicly asking for casual sex with female students who were total strangers? His crime was simply that he accepted feminist arguments and behaved in a manner that is consistent with feminist philosophy. But he did so without the proper genitalia.

Some who were near the propositioning male student said they overheard him saying he had a premonition he was going get to a "yes" from one of his targets. This talk of "premonitions" caused some to speculate that he was mentally unstable.

However, if accused of a specific crime, the offending student should not plead insanity. His chances of acquittal would be better if he had a sex change.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; US: North Carolina
KEYWORDS: college; culturewar; doublestandard; downourthroats; feminazis; feminism; feminists; hypocrites; inyourface; nc; savethemales; sex; unc; uncwillmington; uncwilmington; university; willmington; wilmington; women
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1 posted on 05/07/2014 8:19:16 AM PDT by Kaslin
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2 posted on 05/07/2014 8:20:15 AM PDT by Kaslin (He needed the ignorant to reelect him, and he got them. Now we all have to pay the consequenses)
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To: Kaslin

Poor guy...he thought he was applying the law of averages.


3 posted on 05/07/2014 8:23:10 AM PDT by Night Hides Not (For every Ted Cruz we send to DC, I can endure 2-3 "unviable" candidates that beat incumbents.)
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To: Kaslin
What crime? What crime??? Talking while male, DUH!
4 posted on 05/07/2014 8:26:33 AM PDT by null and void ( They don't think think they are above the law. They think they are the law.)
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To: Kaslin
One woman reacted a little more strongly to his indecent proposal. She started to cry

Oy!

5 posted on 05/07/2014 8:28:01 AM PDT by Jeff Chandler (Obamacare: You can't make an omelette without breaking a few eggs.)
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To: Kaslin

Did the student get any yes answers?


6 posted on 05/07/2014 8:28:08 AM PDT by Tenacious 1 (My whimsical litany of satyric prose and avarice pontification of wisdom demonstrates my concinnity.)
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To: Kaslin

These leftists don’t even realize they act on a double standard. To them, males are dirt and females are wonderful. They can do no wrong.

For a male to try to show them this at a college is foolish. The left runs the show and sets the rules, even if they are unfair.


7 posted on 05/07/2014 8:28:45 AM PDT by I want the USA back (Media: completely irresponsible. Complicit in the destruction of this country.)
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To: Kaslin
All of these incidents are a reflection of a consistent philosophy promoted by feminists here at UNCW. That philosophy is made up of two core principles: 1) Women have a right to act as vulgar as they want in public because the rules of ordinary decency and civility don't apply to them. 2) The key to personal fulfillment is to have sex with as many people as possible and to view any restrictions on sexual liberty as forms of patriarchal oppression.

So what was the crime of the male student who was publicly asking for casual sex with female students who were total strangers? His crime was simply that he accepted feminist arguments and behaved in a manner that is consistent with feminist philosophy. But he did so without the proper genitalia.

This article misses one important distinction. As odious as the examples listed in the article are, none of them invovled propositioning random (and unwilling) strangers for sex (or anything else, for that matter).

8 posted on 05/07/2014 8:30:38 AM PDT by Conscience of a Conservative
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To: Kaslin

He should have dressed like a woman, you know, in drag. That would have threw a wrench in the whole feminist attack.


9 posted on 05/07/2014 8:33:03 AM PDT by VRW Conspirator ( 2+2 = V)
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To: Kaslin

There can be NO equality where there are applied double standards.


10 posted on 05/07/2014 8:33:58 AM PDT by equaviator (There's nothing like the universe to bring you down to earth.)
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To: Kaslin
I often wondered what would happen if we organized a "heterosexual pride" parade, complete with floats and posters showing the proper how-to positions. Plus graphic "in-your-face" PDAs from the participants.

In a sane society, we would probably be arrested for public indecency. Today, we would probably be called 'homophobes' and 'bigots' for not including them.

This kid needs to find a pro bono lawyer who would make this a 14th amendment case, IOW, why should his genitalia prevent him from acting just like a feminist?

11 posted on 05/07/2014 8:34:58 AM PDT by Vigilanteman (Obama: Fake black man. Fake Messiah. Fake American. How many fakes can you fit in one Zer0?)
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To: Kaslin

Getting it isn’t a problem getting rid of what they gave you is and some times you can’t you may even die with it.
Look before you leap.


12 posted on 05/07/2014 8:35:50 AM PDT by Vaduz
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To: Tenacious 1

He got busted before anyone said yes. His crime? Thinking free speech applies to everyone.

On one note though, he is lucky he got busted before he ran across any cross dressers.


13 posted on 05/07/2014 8:36:51 AM PDT by logic101.net (How many more children must die on the altar of gun control?)
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To: Kaslin
"People just don't bump into each other and have sex. This isn't Cinemax."

Jerry Seinfeld


14 posted on 05/07/2014 8:37:14 AM PDT by Buckeye McFrog
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To: Kaslin

No matter how many times you point out their hypocrisy, liberals never seem to get the point. And I wonder how many liberals secretly laugh at the concept of the “Vagina Monologues?” I mean, Penis Dialogues anyone?


15 posted on 05/07/2014 8:41:02 AM PDT by driftless2
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To: Kaslin

His only mistake was not asking men and women ....he would have found someone sooner or later


16 posted on 05/07/2014 8:42:41 AM PDT by woofie
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To: Jeff Chandler
I would have slapped his face and then ran as fast as I could.

As a matter of fact I did that once many, many years when some idiot asked me a very improper question

17 posted on 05/07/2014 8:43:46 AM PDT by Kaslin (He needed the ignorant to reelect him, and he got them. Now we all have to pay the consequenses)
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To: Jeff Chandler

Little too fragile for normal hubbub of life, ain’t she!!


18 posted on 05/07/2014 8:44:29 AM PDT by Shimmer1
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To: Conscience of a Conservative

“As odious as the examples listed in the article are”

They all create a hostile environment...

Exactly what they claim asking for sex creates...


19 posted on 05/07/2014 8:48:07 AM PDT by ltc8k6
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To: Shimmer1

She must not have heard Lady Marmalade...

“Hello. Hey Joe, you wanna give it a go?”

Then again, I didn’t know prostitutes were creating a hostile environment...


20 posted on 05/07/2014 8:50:05 AM PDT by ltc8k6
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To: Kaslin

Reminds me of an OLD joke................

This is from and OLD memory so, bear with me:

Two guys walked into a bar.
One guy went up to a woman and asked if she wanted to have sex with him.
Offended, she slapped his face.
He went up to another woman and said the same thing.
Again, he got his face slapped.
He did this several more times until his friend says, “What the hell are you doing? You’ll just get slapped over and over again!”

He replied, “Yes, I get slapped by 99 women out of a hundred, BUT OH THAT HUNDREDTH ONE IS FANTASTIC!.......................


21 posted on 05/07/2014 8:50:23 AM PDT by Red Badger (Soon there will be another American Civil War. Will make the first one seem like a Tea Party........)
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To: Kaslin
His chances of acquittal would be better if he had a sex change...

no need to get all bent out of shape here...

All he needs to do is proclaim that on the day(s) of his propositioning she decided her gender was female, her feelings telling her so.

22 posted on 05/07/2014 8:53:08 AM PDT by C210N (When people fear government there is tyranny; when government fears people there is liberty)
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To: Kaslin
As a matter of fact I did that once many, many years when some idiot asked me a very improper question

a foreign man offered me money for sex when i was 18... i was in Hawaii with my graduating class! omgosh--did he proposition the wrong chica... my response was very loud and brash... very embarrassed, he spun around, walked into his hotel lobby... it was a nice hotel... and i kept walking while people on the side walk stared at me...

23 posted on 05/07/2014 8:56:33 AM PDT by latina4dubya (when i have money i buy books... if i have anything left, i buy 6-inch heels and a bottle of wine...)
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To: Conscience of a Conservative
As odious as the examples listed in the article are, none of them invovled propositioning random (and unwilling) strangers for sex (or anything else, for that matter).

I disagree, they were equivalent. Each was overtly sexual and a violation of decorum, just like his proposition. I was going to say none of those was illegal, including his proposition, but the underage pictures could fall under kiddie porn laws.

24 posted on 05/07/2014 8:57:13 AM PDT by NonValueAdded (Operating out of weakness? Imagine if he was working from a position of strength!)
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To: ltc8k6
They all create a hostile environment...

Ehh. Not really, for most of them at least. I have a hard time arguing that people sitting at a table, selling some sort of product or message, "create[s] a hostile environment." Certainly not the same as approaching individuals and individually soliciting them for sex (or, again, anything else). The guy was being obnoxious, and he knew it.

25 posted on 05/07/2014 8:58:17 AM PDT by Conscience of a Conservative
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To: NonValueAdded
I disagree, they were equivalent. Each was overtly sexual and a violation of decorum, just like his proposition. I was going to say none of those was illegal, including his proposition, but the underage pictures could fall under kiddie porn laws.

Overtly sexual? Sure (most of them, at least). Violation of decorum? Sure. But, the key difference (in my opinion - others may disagree) is that this guy's actions were individually targeted.

26 posted on 05/07/2014 8:59:47 AM PDT by Conscience of a Conservative
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To: NonValueAdded
I disagree, they were equivalent. Each was overtly sexual and a violation of decorum, just like his proposition. I was going to say none of those was illegal, including his proposition, but the underage pictures could fall under kiddie porn laws.

Also, for what it's worth, based on a quick google search at least, the "art show," as it was exhibited at UNC at least, did not contain the underage pictures.

27 posted on 05/07/2014 9:03:26 AM PDT by Conscience of a Conservative
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To: Kaslin

If tge young man were a faggot he would have been lauded as a pioneering hero. Colleges are a wasteland of debauchery and progressivism. I’m glad I’m past that stage of life. These vaginacentric feminists will be the first to marry the rich guy and take him to the cleaners or forever work at a ‘hip’ coffee shop.


28 posted on 05/07/2014 9:04:21 AM PDT by Organic Panic
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To: Conscience of a Conservative
Every year when they put on The Vagina Monologues, UNCW feminists send out an email that begins with the line "Greetings vagina lovers." And they use the university email system to send this to everyone.

If everyone is everyone, then your point is moot. The dude was just trying to get his "vagina loving fix" from human individuals who possess a vagina.
29 posted on 05/07/2014 9:05:37 AM PDT by rollo tomasi (Working hard to pay for deadbeats and corrupt politicians.)
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To: Conscience of a Conservative

Yes, because if the boys walked around in penis costumes, licking penis pops, and posting penis pictures, and signs saying “penises unite”, etc., that wouldn’t be a hostile campus environment...

Hey, I have a cheap government contract for sale..


30 posted on 05/07/2014 9:10:29 AM PDT by ltc8k6
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To: I want the USA back
To them, males are dirt and females are wonderful. They can do no wrong.

And all us knuckledraggers out here are supposed to believe that is equality!

31 posted on 05/07/2014 9:14:26 AM PDT by Smokin' Joe (How often God must weep at humans' folly. Stand fast. God knows what He is doing.)
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To: Conscience of a Conservative

Asking for sex one time and then moving on is not being obnoxious these days. Nor is it any form of harassment. Nor is it legal to slap anyone for doing so.

That’s called assault.

When I was a young man, it was completely wrong to ask a stranger such a question, of course. And getting slapped was appropriate, of course.

That is still my personal opinion today.

It is not the way the world runs any more, though.


32 posted on 05/07/2014 9:14:45 AM PDT by ltc8k6
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To: ltc8k6

Bad idea for Halloween: dress up as a dictator, wearing only a potatoe customized for the occasion.


33 posted on 05/07/2014 9:16:32 AM PDT by Night Hides Not (For every Ted Cruz we send to DC, I can endure 2-3 "unviable" candidates that beat incumbents.)
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To: Conscience of a Conservative
But, the key difference (in my opinion - others may disagree) is that this guy's actions were individually targeted.

So if it is an individual it is a crime, but if it is a crowd, it is OK?

34 posted on 05/07/2014 9:18:12 AM PDT by Smokin' Joe (How often God must weep at humans' folly. Stand fast. God knows what He is doing.)
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To: Kaslin

I thought there was an App for this.


35 posted on 05/07/2014 9:19:46 AM PDT by windcliff
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To: latina4dubya

My situation was similar as yours, but the first thing I could think of was to slap his face and then run because I was afraid he would run after me and then do who knows what.


36 posted on 05/07/2014 9:20:21 AM PDT by Kaslin (He needed the ignorant to reelect him, and he got them. Now we all have to pay the consequenses)
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To: Kaslin

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=hello+stranger+barbara+lewis


37 posted on 05/07/2014 9:21:34 AM PDT by windcliff
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To: windcliff

I thought perhaps it was the title of Beyoncé’s new album.


38 posted on 05/07/2014 9:27:54 AM PDT by Buckeye McFrog
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To: ltc8k6
"Nor is it legal to slap anyone for doing so. That’s called assault."

Actually, I believe that's called battery. Assault is "threatening" to slap, which is also illegal.

A distinction I didn't realize until a few years ago.

Pointing a gun at someone is also assault.

39 posted on 05/07/2014 9:55:13 AM PDT by DannyTN
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To: ltc8k6
"Nor is it legal to slap anyone for doing so. That’s called assault."

Actually, I believe that's called battery. Assault is "threatening" to slap, which is also illegal.

A distinction I didn't realize until a few years ago.

Pointing a gun at someone is also assault.

40 posted on 05/07/2014 9:55:13 AM PDT by DannyTN
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To: Kaslin

It didn’t work.

I put a condom on a cucumber just like they showed me and my girlfriend still got pregnant /s.


41 posted on 05/07/2014 10:04:29 AM PDT by bobo1 (progressives=commies/fascists)
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To: Kaslin

The correct response to the guy’s proposition is “No.”

Or “Yes.”

But it is naive to be offended by a college guy’s overt solicitation of college girls for sex. All he’s doing is avoiding the subtlety more commonly practiced in the mating ritual.

He’s also being a crude jackass, but hey, that’s what today’s culture has become.

Probably the worst thing that could happen to him would be to get a “Yes” answer. Any gal who would shake it down with a random stranger just because he asked is probably either a skank, demented, or a liberal (but I repeat myself).


42 posted on 05/07/2014 10:09:47 AM PDT by IronJack
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To: Kaslin

Would that same question be considered improper now (not to you, but in general)?


43 posted on 05/07/2014 10:51:09 AM PDT by SgtHooper (This is my tag!)
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To: Kaslin

The person in the black `I Love My Vagina’ tee shirt.
She’s doing strange things with her hands.


44 posted on 05/07/2014 10:55:56 AM PDT by tumblindice (America's founding fathers: all armed conservatives)
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To: Kaslin
Did he sexually harass these women in a traditional sense? No, this was a case of creating a hostile environment in the workplace.

I reject this conclusion.

This may have been Mike Adams' workplace, but it is not the student's workplace. The student is a customer who has purchased the product of education.

This is similar to a person who walks into a department store who then asks another customer out for a date. It may have been an unwelcomed proposition to the other customer, but the first customer was not creating a "hostile workplace environment."

Now, if it were a teacher who was propositioning other teachers, then I'd agree that the teacher was creating a hostile work environment. If supervisors were aware of the offending teacher and did not discipline the teacher, then it is also creating a hostile work environment.

But that does not extend to customers who are simply transactionally inside that work environment.

-PJ

45 posted on 05/07/2014 11:14:24 AM PDT by Political Junkie Too (If you are the Posterity of We the People, then you are a Natural Born Citizen.)
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To: I want the USA back

If a woman had done this, we would’ve been told that it was “empowering”.

Universities have “slut walks” so that women can march proudly independent in groups proclaiming their sexual prowess.


46 posted on 05/07/2014 12:12:07 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (The new witchhunt: "Do you NOW, . . . or have you EVER , . . supported traditional marriage?")
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To: VRW Conspirator; Lazamataz
He should have dressed like a woman, you know, in drag. That would have threw a wrench in the whole feminist attack.

"I'd like to explore my lesbian side..."

47 posted on 05/07/2014 12:13:11 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (The new witchhunt: "Do you NOW, . . . or have you EVER , . . supported traditional marriage?")
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To: IronJack
Probably the worst thing that could happen to him would be to get a “Yes” answer. Any gal who would shake it down with a random stranger just because he asked is probably either a skank, demented, or a liberal (but I repeat myself).

The Obama administration urged this tactic while waiting in line to enroll in Obamacare...


48 posted on 05/07/2014 12:21:58 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (The new witchhunt: "Do you NOW, . . . or have you EVER , . . supported traditional marriage?")
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To: Kaslin; GOPsterinMA; Bender2; NFHale; sickoflibs; Perdogg; fieldmarshaldj
If he were a female student, his conduct would have been seen in a very different light.

If he were a female, even an ugly one, he'd gotten a "yes" pretty soon. He must have sloppy or crazy looking or he would have gotten a yes from some skank eventually.

49 posted on 05/07/2014 12:31:10 PM PDT by Impy (RED=COMMUNIST, NOT REPUBLICAN)
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To: Kaslin

You mean he didn’t get a yes?


50 posted on 05/07/2014 2:01:53 PM PDT by TBP (Obama lies, Granny dies.)
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