Skip to comments."Heaven is for Real" and the Gospel of Life
Posted on 05/18/2014 9:03:55 AM PDT by Kaslin
Editor's note: A version of this article first appeared at thecatholicthing.org
I recently bought the book Heaven is for Real and saw the movie. That was unusual for me. I dont typically do the books and movies everyone else is doing, especially the touchy-feely spiritual ones. Maybe its the snob in me, or, really, I just dont like to do what the culture is doing. But this time, I made an exception.
The story is about the near-death experience of a four-year-old named Colton Burpo, a pastors son from Nebraska. Ill say up front that I didnt care much for the movie, unlike the book. The screenwriter took too many shortcuts and liberties and redirections with new characters. Most annoying was the sexualizing of the little boys mother, Sonja Burpo. Dont get me wrong, shes no Miley Cyrus or Madonna, but shes repeatedly represented in an alluring, suggestive, sensual manner. I was almost expecting a nude scene.
The writer/director, Randall Wallace, explained Sonjas portrayal this way: So many people believe that Christians, and particularly the wives of ministers, would be these sexless, sweet, butter-wouldnt-melt-in-their-mouths kind of people, and that was the opposite of what I thought Sonja was or should be. And Kelly [Reilly, the actress who plays Sonja] just had this sense of romance and charismayou couldnt take your eyes off of her.
Really? Who are these many people who think of Christian women this way? Must we cater to narrow-minded secularists who imagine that the vast sea of American churches they never visit have no attractive women inside? If some 20-something progressive New Yorker is that insular and prejudice, too bad. Lets not tailor to his ignorance by sexualizing the church-mom in a story about a little boys visit to heaven. I wonder how the real life Sonja Burpo feels about this portrayal of her.
But on the positive side, there was much about young Coltons story that was compelling and convincing.
Generally, both the movie and book detail things that this child, even as a ministers son, couldnt have known ahead of time. I dont have the space to detail all of those here. Youll need to see for yourself. Actually, read the book first, because it details these things far better and more believably than the movie. But I will share just one especially poignant example that really touched me when I viewed the movie trailer; in fact, it prompted me to buy the book first.
Well after he has come home from the hospital and recovered, Colton one day out-of-the-blue tells his mother that he has two sisters. Sonja casually corrects him, No, Colton you have your [one] sister.
No, Colton responds. I have two sisters. You had a baby die in your tummy, didnt you?
Who told you I had a baby die in my tummy? a stunned Sonja responds to her four-year-old.
She did, Mommy. She said she died in your tummy.
Sonja is speechless. She had a miscarriage a few years before Coltons birth, but no one ever told little Colton. How did he know? He knew because he said he met the deceased sister in heaven.
A shocked Sonja, long grieved by that miscarriage, asks Colton the girls name. He tells her that she doesnt have one, because mommy and daddy never gave her one. The crushed Sonja responds that they indeed didnt name her, because they never knew she was a she. Its okay, Colton tells his mother, shes fine, she has hair just like yours, and God has adopted her: she just cant wait for you and Daddy to get to heaven.
This scene really hit me. My wife and I have a bunch of kids, but between the second and third there were miscarriages. Ive often thought about those unborn lives. Should I pray for them? Are they indeed children waiting for us? This innocent, hopeful account by this little boy really struck me. A cynic might say that this is a purely emotional response, that this book/film pushed my buttons. But Im not like that. I think theres more to it. Consider: My faith teaches that life begins at conception. I know it. I believe it. I write about it. I teach it.
So, if thats the case, then why wouldnt I believe that those miscarriages, which were lives that began at conception, are waiting in heaven, just as the lives that make it out of the womb go to the other side?
It makes sense, doesnt it? Did it take little Colton Burpos feel-good story about how heaven is for real, to help methis chastened writer and academicunderstand that those unborn lives are also for real, in heaven?
Call me a sentimentalist, but something about this particular account of heaven struck me as really real.
This is a worthy thread to read, so PING!
It is a book worth reading and will get you to think about heaven,wheather you believe to be real or not real.
Something similar happened to the neurosurgeon who died and came back. While in heaven he met someone about whom he said “it was like I always knew her but I didn’t know who she was”. When he came back to this life he started investigating and found out that he had been adopted and he had a sister who had died.
Another story was a woman in Texas who died, saw her uncle who lived in Arizona on the other side, and came back here and told her family that her uncle had died. There was no way she could have known this since he died about the same time she did.
I don’t know what it is - beyond my ability to understand. Maybe our bodies are an embryo and we move to another dimension.
Wow. Our daughter lost three babies, very early in the pregnancies. I think I’ll email this to my daughter. She and I need to name them.
Have you seen the movie? I haven’t......yet.
I loved the book. I didn’t love the movie.
I was distracted by the wife, because she’s in a show on ABC, she plays a bi-polar neurologist, but seemed to overall be the same breathless, somewhat goofy character.
Even though TD Jakes is one of the producers, I thought they totally missed out on the point, Jesus lives. They tried to be too all inclusive. I didn’t feel as I read the book that the pastor was struggling with his faith, I thought it made his faith stronger while wondering why his son saw what he did.
The book is so very much better than the movie. (Although my 10 year old loved the movie)
No, but my eyes are still all fogged after just reding the thread.
I had 4 miscarriages, all at about 7-8 weeks, and I named them each after I lost them. I prayed about it beforehand, and then the first name that popped into my head was the one I went with. It gave me some small comfort. Even though they only lived inside me for a short time, they were my beloved babies and they are not forgotten.
Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.