Some chick in college can bring a guy home to her apartment, get drunk, strip naked, share a bed and pass out, but if the guy awakens before she does, is too drunk to remember where he is and sees an attractive naked chick in the same bed with her legs spread wide open and does what most stupid young drunk guys would do in the same situation, she can cry rape as if it is the equivalent of some dirtbag grabbing an innocent girl on a dark street and dragging her into the alley.
And any politician who actually points out this difference will suffer the same fate as Todd Aiken.
I tend to prefer for women to at least be conscious when I make love to them. Having sex with an unconscious woman, even if she is naked in your bed, pretty much meets the definition of rape.
OTOH, saying that a woman can’t consent to having sex because she is too drunk is pretty much the same as saying that no-one is responsible for their actions when they’re drunk. If you get drunk and then decide to have sex, you have only yourself to blame.