Posted on 07/28/2014 12:47:16 PM PDT by wagglebee
Amen!
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This is what I was doing when you told me to clean my room.
Any excuse not to clean the room.
Seriously, though, God bless here and her family.
I wonder how many young adults are living with a mother who disposed of their unborn brother or sister? I suspect the number may be in the millions...
Such an inspiring story! It reminds us that we should always forgive another for genuinely recognizing a wrong. Zoe was very spiritually mature for doing so.
It’s also important to realize that forgiveness should only be extended to those who can unequivocally say, “I was wrong, and will never do [that action] again.” I’ve known several awful liberals in the past who beg for forgiveness for their abortions, only to go right back and get another one. I’ve seen people beg for forgiveness as a means of manipulation far too often.
There is another thought which should be considered. From a legal perspective, having/performing an abortion should be a capital crime. Would Zoe’s mother still have sought out her 1998 abortion even if it were to be severely punished? Fear of a punishment can be the only thing keeping one from getting an abortion, and I think a lot of women would be grateful if the power of the law convinced them not to have an abortion.
LOL!
Heart breaking story -- but as you said, God bless her and her family -- and may He provide healing.
May God bless her efforts! I know of two people whose mother admitted to having their twin aborted. One is my age, and his mother did not regret it. The other was nine when he found out; his mother was rather proud of it. Both knew that the intent was to kill each of them, and only the incompetence of the abortionist, and their mother’s reluctance to go through the physical pain again, allowed them to live.
My ex-wife had an abortion and my(our) two daughters don’t know and I’m not sure if I will ever tell them. I know my ex won’t. I really wrestle with that. Perhaps, when they’re older(15 and almost 13 now), I will ask their mom to share it with them.
Two people, maybe three, were involved in abortion. I pray for them. One has passed. I know it affected her entire life and in her last weeks, she “confessed” to me. I hope it gave her peace. Another decades ago - I know it has haunted her. Finally a man I know and am close to. Again decades ago but I think about this child who might now be 45 and I pray for him/her and for that father. He loves the two sons he has so much. I wonder if he ever thinks about that other child.
The single most devout, respectable, loving Christian woman I’ve ever known came to be that way because of her abortion.
When she told me about it, there was anger (because she’d been lied to), but no guilt. She honestly believed that she’d been forgiven all sins.
But she was still furious that the lies allowed her to sin. “It’s just a clump of cells” at eighteen weeks left her haunted with the vision of a tiny arm floating in a jar.
I don’t know if it’s right or not, but I’ve sometimes wondered if that tiny soul sacrificed himself to bring about his mother’s testimony. She was one of the most joyful, powerful, loving women that I’ve ever known. She had five children with her husband and the two of them took such delight in those babies.
Her husband became critically, chronically ill while we were friends and her faith has been an inspiration to me to this day.
She wouldn’t have been this devout, wonderful human being without the sin. I wouldn’t be the woman I am now without her.
Sometimes the most vehement pro-life advocates are the ones who’ve been there.
A very inspiring story indeed. I always admire those women I see holding signs that read "I regret my abortion."
And there are many people who have never had one but perhaps supported it because they never really thought about it and supporting it was the cool thing to do and once the teaching of the Church on sexual and life issues was weakened after Vatican II, they had no guide. I know a lot of those people who really regret it now and are very repentant.
That may be a comforting thought, but unborn babies have no power to sacrifice themselves. They are totally innocent victims when their mothers choose, or in some circumstances are forced, to abort them.
Pro-abortion advocates would like to paint the picture of the pro-life movement being filled with white men who only want to control women's lives. But the reality is that the pro-life community is filled with women and men of all varieties, many of whom came to their opposition to abortion from painful personal experience. After choosing to abort their babies, many people become more hardened in their souls in order to justify their choice. Others turn to God for forgiveness and healing. Your friend was one of the latter.
So who is living with the guilt, you or your ex-wife? Evidently it's not her........
The answer is so simple............
As a post script, having given it more thought, I would highly recommend you tell your daughters of their mother's previous abortion. To them, abortion is just a word that is not given any thought to at their age.
By informing them that a brother or sister had been murdered before the child was even born my have a postive effect on their lives in regard to the sanctity of life for all and especially the unborn.........
And if she says "no," then leave it be.
So who is living with the guilt, you or your ex-wife? Evidently it's not her........
How do you know? How do you know what she lives with day by day?
The answer is so simple............
Go ahead, push her over the edge; it'll be so much fun watching her fall.
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