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When guys find out Iím a virgin [author is a 26 year old female Christian]
Salon ^ | October 5, 2014 | Ellen Burkhardt

Posted on 10/13/2014 3:06:55 PM PDT by grundle

There’s no good time to tell a guy you’re a virgin. First date? Too much, too soon. Wait until the third date and you risk being considered a tease. Second date? Perhaps, but at this point you’re both still fretting over whether or not to eat another piece of bread; delving into sexual histories (or lack thereof) seems a bit extreme. So: There’s no good time to tell a guy you’re a virgin. Even worse? Telling him you’re waiting until marriage.

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1 posted on 10/13/2014 3:06:55 PM PDT by grundle
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To: grundle

EWWWWWWWWWWW....while her chastity is commendable, her choice of magazines is disgusting.


2 posted on 10/13/2014 3:08:27 PM PDT by Drango (A liberal's compassion is limited only by the size of someone else's wallet.)
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To: grundle

Lose the nosering and she’s not guilty.


3 posted on 10/13/2014 3:09:03 PM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (Resist We Much)
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True love waits.


4 posted on 10/13/2014 3:09:15 PM PDT by OneLoyalAmerican (In God I trust, all others provide citations.)
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To: grundle

Why bring it up? Why mention it?


5 posted on 10/13/2014 3:09:30 PM PDT by GeronL (Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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To: Drango

You have to go where the unsaved are, if you want to save them. They certainly aren’t going to sit in the church pews.


6 posted on 10/13/2014 3:09:37 PM PDT by Jonty30 (What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
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To: grundle

How about your wedding night? And he better be one too.


7 posted on 10/13/2014 3:09:51 PM PDT by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: grundle
Even worse? Telling him you’re waiting until marriage.

she is definitely hanging out in the wrong crowd

8 posted on 10/13/2014 3:10:25 PM PDT by GeronL (Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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To: fieldmarshaldj; Lazamataz
Lose the nosering and she’s not guilty.

Where's Laz?

9 posted on 10/13/2014 3:10:31 PM PDT by dware (3 prohibited topics in mixed company: politics, religion and operating systems...)
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To: Jonty30

Very good point!


10 posted on 10/13/2014 3:11:05 PM PDT by Drango (A liberal's compassion is limited only by the size of someone else's wallet.)
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To: fieldmarshaldj

Nosering is ok, but she has a big nose.


11 posted on 10/13/2014 3:12:55 PM PDT by Gamecock (USA, Ret.)
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To: grundle

Good article, thanks for posting it. And I guess thanks to Salon for publishing it.


12 posted on 10/13/2014 3:13:39 PM PDT by jocon307
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To: grundle

“Even worse? Telling him you’re waiting until marriage.”

Why would you date someone who has a problem with that? I wouldn’t even accept a date from someone I wasn’t sure was a Christian.


13 posted on 10/13/2014 3:13:40 PM PDT by Politicalkiddo (Power always thinks.. that it is doing God's service when it is violating all his laws. -John Adams)
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To: grundle

Too many men want time with a whore, but want to marry a virgin.


14 posted on 10/13/2014 3:14:28 PM PDT by umgud (I couldn't understand why the ball kept getting bigger......... then it hit me.)
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To: Drango

Writing for Salon..... she’s a presstitute aka liar.


15 posted on 10/13/2014 3:14:29 PM PDT by Squantos ( Be polite, be professional, but have a plan to kill everyone you meet ...)
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To: grundle

I'd hit it.

....oh, wait.

16 posted on 10/13/2014 3:15:06 PM PDT by Lazamataz (First we beat the Soviet Union. Then we became them. We have no 'news media', only a Soviet Pravda.)
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To: Lazamataz

nothing says devout Christian like a nose ring


17 posted on 10/13/2014 3:16:55 PM PDT by GeronL (Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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To: GeronL
Because some guys are just with you for sex. When they find out it is not in the cards they can get pushy or nasty. Sometimes both.
18 posted on 10/13/2014 3:17:01 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Proud Infidel, Gun Nut, Religious Fanatic and Freedom Fiend)
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To: grundle

IMHO if you’re not going to have sex before marriage, then dating is just interviewing for a spouse, and there’s no point in dating until your ready (or almost ready) to get married.


19 posted on 10/13/2014 3:17:46 PM PDT by Hugin ("Do yourself a favor--first thing, get a firearm!",)
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear

Why is she with them in the first place?


20 posted on 10/13/2014 3:18:12 PM PDT by GeronL (Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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