Thanks.
Feel free not to answer, because you may not know. But how do these guys justify it? Or do they just ignore the contradiction?
I don’t know.
I do know that the pressure builds up, then the man explodes in frustration, then the relationship is over. Once there was a blatant ‘put out or we’re done’ ultimatum. Twice, there was a engagement (with the diamond ring) and the man thought that the commitment to commit should be enough. (I do believe that this was the case in the first situation.)
The fact is that religious men are still MEN. Other than a bit more patience, I don’t see any difference between religious or secular men when it comes to premarital sex.
Worse, religious men seem to value purity in a woman... until it comes to *them*.