[Marie]

Why bring it up? Are you serious?

In today’s society, girls who really do want to preserve their chastity for a special man are shunned.

Why should he stick it out with her when there are so many others who are willing? A good girl can’t keep a guy for even two months if she doesn’t put out.

Today’s society have destroyed chastity for women. We have lost every bit of our female power to sexual ‘freedom’. Now we are to accept being used as a matter of course. Serial monogamy rules the day.

This strong woman is fighting for something precious and she’s letting other young women know that it’s possible and that they are not alone.

Yes. We need reassurance. We need to know that we’re not weird.

The sexual revolution has destroyed womanhood and I cannot see it being repaired.

[GeronL]

She is obviously not dating good guys then

[LambSlave]

A good girl can’t keep a guy for even two months if she doesn’t put out.

What, that is so untrue!! Why are Christian girls even dating or interested in these kind of men? There are plenty of good men out there who shun the kind of women who are typically having sex with everyone they date by the third date and the Christian ones are looking for someone who wants to wait until marriage. This young lady and the men out there like her should be held up as worthy of emulation and given hope and encouragement.

[SgtHooper]

Bingo! Excellent response!

[Army Air Corps]

Today’s society have destroyed chastity for women.

Fixed it.

[Boomer One]

Actually the sexual revolution has destroyed our ability to know the inner person before we jump into a long term relationship. Putting sex on the side gives one the opportunity to experience the entire person and, should there not be a match, walk away from the relationship intact. My wife and I were friends long before we dated. By being friends, I was able to identify those traits that endeared her to me and likewise those that caused me to hesitate. Knowing the pros outnumbered the cons (especially after she gave up smoking), we began to date and things evolved from there. I advised all of my daughters to proceed slowly and hopefully they heeded my advice as we’ve not encountered a divorce to date.

[NorthstarMom]

Yep, I’ve been married for 16 years but I remember my dating days and having to draw the line...awkward. However, the ones who had a problem with that clearly weren’t the one for me so it weeded guys out pretty quickly.

[Theodore R.]

Most young women still support the “sexual revolution”, including abortion. They are too uninformed to see how they have been “had”.

[PieterCasparzen]

Why bring it up? Are you serious?

In today’s society, girls who really do want to preserve their chastity for a special man are shunned.

Why should he stick it out with her when there are so many others who are willing? A good girl can’t keep a guy for even two months if she doesn’t put out.

Today’s society have destroyed chastity for women. We have lost every bit of our female power to sexual ‘freedom’. Now we are to accept being used as a matter of course. Serial monogamy rules the day.

This strong woman is fighting for something precious and she’s letting other young women know that it’s possible and that they are not alone.

Yes. We need reassurance. We need to know that we’re not weird.

The sexual revolution has destroyed womanhood and I cannot see it being repaired.

The Biblical standard is chastity for both men and women.

Biblical courting is the only way to go for Christians.

Anything else is whoredom from a Scriptural standpoint.

The Biblical way is absolutely fantastic in how it protects the woman and has her best interests at heart, keeping away undesireables. A Christian man with good intentions would absolutely love the idea of Biblical courting - and should actually insist on it, as should Christian women and their parents.

The way the public has been brainwashed, it may seem "old-fashioned" at first glance to the unbeliever or Christian who is perhaps not so well-versed in Scripturally-sound doctrine. But when one considers that to the Christian, God comes first, above ALL else, from that perspective, it comes to be seen as the bare minimum of obedience to Christ's commands to his sheep. And, as Scripture tells us, we should find ourselves joyfully obedient, not begrudingly so, out of the sheer joy of the grace and lovingkindness of God towards his elect.

All that we are commanded in the whole counsel of God is for our own good.