Well, you do have a point, some people do look at the surface qualities as an initial gauge on a persons character...
I don’t really throw rocks at situations like that because it does make it more interesting, in longer term interactions, that you look at the persons actions more than their appearance...In some cases...
She does have an agenda, how genuine that is, and her reasoning for announcing her “status” to the world brings some questioning to her motive...
Is she just out there shopping??? Because she wants some guy out there to notice and actually be her first???
Imagine that story (followup)???
Bet me she eventually comes back with, “I’m not a virgin anymore!” article...
Who knows...I actually think that is her motive, to come back with a followup...Right???
Actually one surface quality I look for (after having a pleasing face/body) is voice. With the advent of the “Valley Girl” over 3 decades ago, the annoying, dumbed-down mallrat-speak which spread like wildfire across the country, it ruined the appeal of so many young females worse than scads of tats and piercings. When I listen to a voice, I have to ask myself, “Do I want to listen to this voice for years ?” It’s awful to find a pretty girl and she has a voice like nails on chalkboard.