Yeah, I've heard that one a bunch!
But here’s the worst one.
My friend waited until marriage. She had a baby with her husband. He gave her VD and that’s how she discovered that he was unfaithful. When he was called on it, he left the marriage. She wanted to work on it (marriage was sacred for her), but he did not.
Once she was a single mother, it’s like the floodgates opened in the eyes of men.
She was a pure soul and had saved herself for marriage. The man was scum and he left HER. When she tried dating again, NO MAN would tolerate waiting.
Why? She wasn’t a virgin, so what did it matter? In his eyes, she was damaged goods and had to right to ask for respect or chastity.
“Good Christian” men could not understand that she still valued sex within marriage and she never found a husband. (25 years later, she’s still sweet and single and unloved because she refused to bend her morality to the fashion of the day.) Even the men in her church became impatient. They’d make a commitment as far as ‘girlfriend’ went, but not marriage. Not a full year of holding out for that special love. (And no. She’s not ugly. Cute as a button.)
Just because a woman has a *baby* doesn’t mean that she’s easy or a slut.
At the age of 43, she has only slept with one man and that man was her husband and is the father of her child.
She won’t settle for less, and the men no longer see her as a woman of value.
Why? Because they don’t have to.
Reverse psychology was big in my youth:
Tell HER you’re waiting until marriage..