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‘Mattress Girl’ Is a Perfect Icon for the Feminist Left
National Review ^ | 5/21/2015 | Ian Tuttle

Posted on 05/21/2015 5:41:28 AM PDT by Servant of the Cross

To anyone who’s followed the case of Emma Sulkowicz, Columbia University’s “Mattress Girl,” the fact that her symbolic protest doubled as a credit-earning work of performance art seems a fitting commentary on the whole situation.

Sulkowicz, who graduated Sunday, spent her senior year hauling a 50-pound mattress around campus to protest the Columbia administration’s failure to expel her alleged rapist. It would be difficult to overstate the adulation showered upon her: She won the National Organization for Women’s Susan B. Anthony Award and the Feminist Majority Foundation’s Ms. Wonder Award; she was the subject of a glowing New York Magazine profile (“she’s the type of hipster-nerd who rules the world these days“); she was invited to this year’s State of the Union as a guest of New York senator Kirsten Gillibrand; earlier this month, United Nations ambassador Samantha Power likened Sulkowicz to women fighting for their rights in Afghanistan; the “art” itself was reviewed in the New York Times. (Assessment: “Analogies to the Stations of the Cross may come to mind.”)

Samantha Power
@AmbassadorPower

From a wmn carrying a mattress on her campus to Afghanistan's
Wmn's Nat Cycling Team, reaching true equality req showing
change is possible.
5:37 PM - 17 May 2015

Such praise might have been deserved — if Emma Sulkowicz had actually been raped. But unlike New York Magazine, the New York Times, the New York Post, and a bevy of other national and international publications, Reason’s Cathy Young actually dug into Sulkowicz’s claims that she was anally raped in August 2012, and in early February published a long investigative report in The Daily Beast that threw serious doubt on her accusations.

The essay included not only an interview with Sulkowicz’s alleged rapist, German scholarship student Paul Nungesser (whom no one else had bothered to talk to), but transcripts of text-message conversations between the pair — you know, “evidence.” Young revealed that Nungesser had been cleared by the university of Sulkowicz’s accusations, and of similar accusations by two other women whose complaints were apparently encouraged by acquaintances sympathetic to Sulkowicz, and possibly by Sulkowicz herself. At Reason today, Young adds that accusations from a fourth accuser, a male who says Nungesser sexually assaulted him in 2011, also were found unreliable by the university. Keep in mind, the university adhered to a minimal preponderance-of-evidence standard, meaning not a single of Nungessser’s accusers could show that it was “more likely than not” that what they claim happened did, in fact, happen.

Add to all of this Nungesser’s lawsuit against the university for failing to protect him from gender-based harassment, which includes transcripts of sexually explicit Facebook and text-message conversations between him and Sulkowicz, and the evidence in Nungesser’s favor is overwhelming.

Which is why the continued lionization of Sulkowicz has proven so instructive: It has made clear how utterly uninterested the feminist movement is in anything like an appeal to facts or common reason. It is a happy coincidence that Sulkowicz herself may be the best example of exactly this phenomenon.

Following Young’s February article, feminist outlet Jezebel attempted to debunk her debunking. Young had noted that Sulkowicz originally agreed to annotate the transcript of the text messages she and Nungesser had exchanged, and then suddenly refused. Jezebel published the exchange between reporter and subject — and the result does not serve Sulkowicz well. Responding to an e-mail from Young she wrote:

I just want to understand one thing. You wrote, “unless of course they contain material that violates the privacy of a third party, which would have to be redacted.” Do you just mean that you would have to redact their names? You are unwilling to violate the privacy of a third party, yet you are willing to violate mine? If you are only publishing conversations that you have both parties’ consent to publish, I do not give you my consent to publish any of what he has sent you.

Lastly, about your deadline. If I don’t get this to you by tonight, you are just going to go ahead and publish what you have? I may need more than a day to complete this. This is not easy work for me. How dare you put a deadline on the moment at which you violate my privacy and carve out my private life in order to gain publicity for your website. I think that is despicable. (Emphasis added.)

Later, Sulkowicz wrote to Jezebel:

I have already been violated by both Paul and Columbia University once. It is extremely upsetting that Paul would violate me again — this time, with the help of a reporter, Cathy Young. I just wanted to fix the problem of sexual assault on campus — I never wanted this to be an excuse for people to dig through my private Facebook messages and frame them in a way as to cast doubt on my character. It’s unfair and disgusting that Paul and Cathy would treat personal life as a mine that they can dig through and harvest for publicity and Paul’s public image.

Has it never occurred to Sulkowicz or her defenders that, as rape is a serious matter, accusing someone of rape is also serious? And that to go public with life-altering accusations is by definition to submit one’s own private life to scrutiny? That seems unlikely. Far more likely is that they simply wish it were otherwise, and so pretend that it is. What Sulkowicz wants is to make claims about another person that cannot be challenged, checked, questioned, or doubted.

That was the substance, if not the style, of her address in April to a group of Brown University students marking Sexual Assault Awareness Month. The speech, live-tweeted by students in attendance, included alarming, Jezebel-worthy taglines — “If we use proof in rape cases,” said Sulkowicz, “we fall into the patterns of rape deniers.” Yet it also trafficked in high-sounding maxims composed of that mélange of pseudo-academic, quasi-mystical jargon that passes today for profundity: “In saying I expose the truth, the viewer superimposes their truth upon mine, and once again silences me.” “Well-meaning people on the street will touch me reverently. . . . They do not believe they are violating me with their hands.” “When people engage in believing in me, they objectify me.”

With such aperçus Sulkowicz was not making an effort to say anything of substance, but rather to stifle speech — to put a “transcendent” gloss on her claims and, in so doing, to elevate accusations like her own out of the realm of reasoned consideration. When she can’t do that — for instance, in e-mails with dogged reporters — she resorts to outrage.

It’s fortuitous, then, in a grim way, that the feminist Left found Emma Sulkowicz. As a response to the horrific selfishness of rape, feminists have increasingly embraced their own, intellectual selfishness, a uniquely destructive brand of have-it-all-ism that rejects responsibility for anything beyond one’s own feeling of victimization — and Sulkowicz is their pitiable poet.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Government; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: feministleft; icon; mattressgirl; victims
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To: glennaro

“’Feminists are just girls with daddy issues that are too ugly to be strippers’

Well put, indeed. BTTT”

I post that as a joke, but it is 100% true in my experience. They either had a mush of a father, one who gave up, or an ass.


41 posted on 05/21/2015 7:14:54 AM PDT by Jewbacca (The residents of Iroquois territory may not determine whether Jews may live in Jerusalem)
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To: MrB

Understood - but her interactions with the school, including currently unpublished claims or accounts, could figure into making the evidence in a potential second lawsuit overwhelming. If she has no monetary resources to lose, then I would speculate she would have no issues trying to exclude or destroy any evidence in her communications with the school.

Again - just using my understanding of people to puzzle through the situation.


42 posted on 05/21/2015 7:15:42 AM PDT by MortMan (All those in favor of gun control raise both hands!)
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To: rfreedom4u

One of the many things that bother me about these rape allegations is that the women never seem to want to file criminal charges against their alleged rapists, only ruin their lives in the court of public opinion. They talk about how disgusting it is that the “rapist” goes free, but in true hypocritical fashion, they themselves let the “rapist” go free because they refuse to press charges. If you are really raped, you don’t want that to happen to someone else. So to me it’s a foregone conclusion that anyone not willing to press criminal charges against their rapist is lying through their teeth.


43 posted on 05/21/2015 7:19:59 AM PDT by FamiliarFace
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To: isthisnickcool
One thing sticks out to me, the fellow who is accused is suing the school but not her. Why not?

Deep pockets vs. empty pockets?

44 posted on 05/21/2015 8:07:57 AM PDT by JimRed (Excise the cancer before it kills us; feed & Ifwater the Tree of Liberty! TERM LIMITS NOW & FOREVER!)
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To: Blennos

“She has nice legs...”

Wait a few years, and they will look like Hillary’s.


45 posted on 05/21/2015 8:16:07 AM PDT by GGpaX4DumpedTea (I am a Tea Party descendant...steeped in the Constitutional Republic given to us by the Founders)
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To: Ghost of SVR4

Added to the ‘do not hire’ list.


46 posted on 05/21/2015 8:45:57 AM PDT by enraged
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To: Jewbacca
Even though he is a big lib Garrison Keillor spoofs the NPR crowd in one of his books and drills this type of college girl feminist....
“He had hired her impulsively, a graduate of St. James, because she was angelic, and only later did he discover that she could not spell or write, and was the president of a group called Wounded Daughters of Distant Fathers....He was about to put his hand on her shoulder and say something about music, and then he pulled back. You had to be careful about touching a Wounded Daughter. What you thought was a pat on the shoulder might be taken as groping for her zipper.”

Of course he tells an off color joke and she files a complaint against him with the college.

Someone needs to actually start a WDoDF club to mock these people.

47 posted on 05/21/2015 9:12:39 AM PDT by fungoking (Tis a pleasure to live in the Ozarks)
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To: Servant of the Cross

I pity the next man that this psychotic nut ball get in her clutches.


48 posted on 05/21/2015 9:15:41 AM PDT by Lurker (Violence is rarely the answer. But when it is it is the only answer.)
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To: Blennos

49 posted on 05/21/2015 8:43:03 PM PDT by Oztrich Boy (Sub-editors: totes unnecessary.)
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