Oh boy. :(
My Mom used to say she’d steal one of my guns and kill herself before she ever went into a nursing home. Fortunately, she was 100% active and fine up until the moment she (unfortunately) died.
My uncle: “If I can’t take care of myself anymore, I’ll find a way to get to my place in Maine and disappear into the woods. It works for other animals like dogs.”
My grandmother who lived to be 101 used to tell me that she would take a ‘black pill’ before she reaches the point where she needs full time nursing care.
I used to reply that they don't sell those in the drug store.
She had to be picked up and cleaned up (couldn't use the toilet at all) for her last ~ 8 years of life
She was a completely different person,.