>> they were always careful when driving
They should have been careful about not crossing the US border illegally.
Being careful when driving is just normal behavior, not something to hold up as a major virtue.
How careful were they were using stolen or fake SS#’s when they applied for a job or filed their taxes?
So he is driving without a DL, no DL=no insurance, and you want me to feel bad? Just another reason you need to leave