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My father gave me The Talk after the MOVE bombing. Now, I have to do it for my kids
Philly.Com ^ | 06/12/2020/ | Sozi Pedro Tulante

Posted on 06/12/2020 12:34:06 PM PDT by Kid Shelleen

The Talk.

It is one of the most difficult and painful things that anyone raising black children has to do. To sit your children down and tell them how they must behave when interacting with the police — to be calm, show their hands, avoid sudden movements, follow instructions, and always be respectful. The Talk almost always ends in tears. After all, how do you tell the young, beautiful, innocent children you love that they might be harassed or even killed by the very people who have vowed to protect them? There is no perfect time for having The Talk. Indeed, oftentimes, it is a response to a specific event — typically another senseless killing of a black person — that your child has heard about.

That was the case for me, both in first receiving The Talk from my father and later giving The Talk to my own kids. ---SNIP--- Though The Talk left me shaken and confused, it did instill in me, as a black kid, a fear of and respect for the awesome power that the police wield

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KEYWORDS: 1978; 1985; blackliberation; move; police
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1 posted on 06/12/2020 12:34:06 PM PDT by Kid Shelleen
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To: Kid Shelleen

Did she tell them that it was done by a Democrat?


2 posted on 06/12/2020 12:34:56 PM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: dfwgator

Sometimes the cops aren’t racist, just stupid.


3 posted on 06/12/2020 12:36:20 PM PDT by Buckeye McFrog (Patrick Henry would have been an anti-vaxxer)
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To: Kid Shelleen

White people do this too.

Cops are twitchy.


4 posted on 06/12/2020 12:37:11 PM PDT by Uncle Miltie (Dan Crenshaw (R-TX) 2028!)
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To: Kid Shelleen
to be calm, show their hands, avoid sudden movements, follow instructions, and always be respectful.

Isn't that what we're all supposed to do?

5 posted on 06/12/2020 12:37:33 PM PDT by Renkluaf
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To: Kid Shelleen

I am white, at age 14 when I got my drivers license in Kansas, my father gave me the TALK. He gave me a decal, the JOHN BIRCH SOCIETY sticker for my windshield that said, SUPPORT LOCAL POLICE.


6 posted on 06/12/2020 12:37:51 PM PDT by rovenstinez (. SO,)
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To: Kid Shelleen

So tired of hearing about “the talk”. Don’t think white families aren’t having this also....except for different reasons.


7 posted on 06/12/2020 12:37:55 PM PDT by ealgeone
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To: Kid Shelleen

“...and tell them how they must behave when interacting with the police — to be calm, show their hands, avoid sudden movements, follow instructions, and always be respectful. ...”

I learned that at an early age and followed it the very few times I was stopped by the law - and I’m white.


8 posted on 06/12/2020 12:38:11 PM PDT by PeteB570 ( Islam is the sea in which the Terrorist Shark swims. The deeper the sea the larger the shark.)
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To: Kid Shelleen

No disrespect intended to anyone, but, do black parents also tell their children what to do and how to avoid the youth gangs that plagued so many black communities? Do they teach them to recognize who drug dealers and other ne’er-do-wells are and to avoid them?

The plain fact is that black people are in far more danger from black criminal types than they are from policemen.


9 posted on 06/12/2020 12:38:37 PM PDT by Dilbert San Diego
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To: dfwgator

I have a feeling he may have left a few things out.


10 posted on 06/12/2020 12:39:59 PM PDT by Kid Shelleen (Beat your plowshares into swords. Let the weak say I am strong)
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To: Kid Shelleen

The Talk: Nonblack Version

https://www.takimag.com/article/the_talk_nonblack_version_john_derbyshire/#axzz2wwon0RAz


11 posted on 06/12/2020 12:40:01 PM PDT by CodeJockey (Dum Spiro, Pugno)
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To: PeteB570

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uj0mtxXEGE8


12 posted on 06/12/2020 12:40:15 PM PDT by CGASMIA68
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To: Kid Shelleen

Not this again. Hell, white and raised in the deep south, I was given “The Talk” about cops and how they would beat me to death if I gave them the slightest provocation. I was also given “The Talk” about blacks and they would beat me to death if I gave them the slightest provocation. Funny thing is, if I go online, I find the latter to be more prevalent than the former.


13 posted on 06/12/2020 12:41:17 PM PDT by Retrofitted
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To: Kid Shelleen
My dad also had to give me 'the talk' after the MOVE thing in the '80s. He said something to the effect of 'If that damned mayor wasn't so incompetent those kids wouldn't have had to burn to death and that neighborhood would still be standing'.

The mayor was black, and a democrat. So blaming racism for it is foolish. He was just a damned incompetent fool.

14 posted on 06/12/2020 12:42:27 PM PDT by pepsi_junkie (Often wrong, but never in doubt!)
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To: Kid Shelleen

“Lord loves a workin’ man, don’t trust whitey, see a doctor and get rid of it.”


15 posted on 06/12/2020 12:42:35 PM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: Uncle Miltie

“White people do this too.”

+1

My father gave me The Talk when I was a teenager as I had several run ins with local law enforcement (my own doing).

The essence:
- don’t break the law
- treat cops with respect
- don’t antagonize a person wearing a firearm


16 posted on 06/12/2020 12:43:18 PM PDT by CheneyClone
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To: Kid Shelleen

I hope this clown does not “move” here..


17 posted on 06/12/2020 12:44:21 PM PDT by max americana (fired liberal employees at every election since 2008 because I enjoy seeing them cry)
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To: Kid Shelleen

White person here.

Having had a bad experience as a teenager with two undercover assholes with badges I told my son if he was ever stopped by the cops to:

)1 Be polite and not argue with them and to call me immediately.
2) I had him watch the never talk to the cops video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=1&v=Sskav1SEcg8&feature=emb_logo


18 posted on 06/12/2020 12:44:33 PM PDT by CaptainK ('No collusion, no obstruction, he's a leaker')
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To: Kid Shelleen
John Derbyshire got fired from National Review for giving this "non black" version of "the Talk."

I read it at the time, and I thought it spoke some ugly truths which people simply don't wish to acknowledge.

"The Talk." (non black version.)

https://www.takimag.com/article/the_talk_nonblack_version_john_derbyshire/

19 posted on 06/12/2020 12:44:35 PM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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To: Kid Shelleen
During the talk, which is a legend, and legend's can contain truths and falsehood, one should also deliver statistics, regardless of what those statistics show, so long as they are reliable.

Then you would not have abused your child with fear.

20 posted on 06/12/2020 12:44:45 PM PDT by tinyowl (A is A)
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