Posted on 02/14/2022 6:30:55 PM PST by grundle
For Abbaro, dating in the Black community has still had its challenges. She remembers a hurtful incident from her college days. “I was talking to this Black guy [and he said], ‘Just so you know, I don’t date Black women. Black women are whack and I only date white girls,’” she recalls.
Black women are often exoticized and fetishized.
Being discriminated against can have major impacts on Black women’s mental and emotional health, as well as on their dating habits. In Murphy’s case, that early experience left a major mark on her psyche. “I mentally prepared myself for the rejection before it came,” she said.
Feeling exhausted and undesired, Murphy began dating unavailable men so she could bypass those feelings of dismissal if things didn’t work out. “If the rejection came, I could give myself credit [and say], ‘Well, you didn't want anything anyway.’”
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Look. A squirrel.
Obviously, more feminism is needed. Black women just aren’t valuing themselves highly enough! They need to be more demanding and confrontational. Men of all races just love a problem in a woman. It’s just a blessing all the way around. Sarcasm.
On the hot/crazy graph, too many black women are way up on crazy.
You can have our wack women.
The most racist, misogynistic place in the US in black church on Sunday morning.
The black church ladies will push out any white woman that dares enter, no matter who she comes with.
And may heaven help her if she is blonde and thin.
Ouch.
(FWIW, our church seems to be a haven for mixed couples.)
On a related note, the core leadership of Black Lives Matter is black lesbians.
This is actually fixable.
They can smile and be nice.
It is not that hard to do!
Whack Lives Matter.
That's right. Not all of them. But a good number, yes.
Liberal women are unattractive, especially on the inside.
Go watch Kevin Samuels on Youtube.
I think that black guys like the fact that it is easier to find a classy and compliant woman among white gals. For every Rosie O’Donnell, there are 10 Whoopi Goldbergs.
Read the chapter titled "White woman, black man".
We need more cowbell.
If they were unavailable how did she date them?
And if black men don't want to date black women, what the hell am I supposed to do about it? And why should I care?
“ Systemic racism and white supremacy have played a big role in labeling black women as “undesirable.”
Nope. YouTube and other SM videos show examples of the undesirability she decries everyday. Usually at some fast food outlet.
They can’t blame me! My wife won’t let me date black women either.
There is nothing more frightening than a black woman in a passion.
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