What to Do When Your Partner Is Upset But They Won’t Tell You Why
https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-speak-to-an-upset-partner-who-won-t-admit-why-5199282
What to do? If they won’t engage, just ignore them and cheerfully carry on with your business as if nothing is wrong. That always gets to them and THEN they’ll tell you what’s up. No reason to put up with silly games.
They left out one of the symptoms: Your partner pulls out a gun and yells, “I’m gonna kill you, Bytch!”
Please heed the earlier warning signs