All I can offer to him and his beloved family is a prayer from St. Francis of Assisi. I must be honest. I'm not a relegious person, but have no doubt in a "Higher Spiritual Power." The following meditation I want to share. We all need help during this mystery of life.
"Lord make me an instrument of Thy peace; where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; and where there is sadness, joy.
"O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood, as to understand; to be loved, as to love; for it is in giving that we receive, it is in pardoning that we are pardoned, and it is in dying, that we are born to eternal life."
Peace and Best FReegards to CO and his family.